Many people go through hell, and then they realize they have to find self, if people do it before they get into a relationship, it would save them a lot of grief. Find yourself first! Stop creating monsters in your life, because they only do to you what you allow. You must matter enough to yourself that you won't allow and accept any and everything in the name of love. Don't lose yourself or sell yourself short for no one.

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