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Episode 4 Exploring the Difference between Religion vs. Relationship
Episode 4: Church vs. Relationship with God – Understanding the Difference
Religion vs. Relationship – What God Truly Wants from Us
Because here’s the truth: Church is NOT the same as a relationship with God. Sitting in a pew every Sunday, seeing familiar faces, and hearing a sermon is NOT what deepens your faith. Church is supposed to be a place of community, accountability, and love in action. But your personal relationship with God? That’s something that happens every single day—it’s about talking with Him, seeking Him, and growing in faith, not just attending a service. Let's talk about it.
Part 1: Church ≠ Relationship with God – Understanding the Difference
Definitions:
1. Religion:
o A structured system of beliefs, practices, and rituals centered around a higher power or divine authority.
o Often involves rules, traditions, and moral codes to guide individuals in their faith journey.
o Can become rigid or legalistic when the focus shifts from faith and relationship to rituals and works-based righteousness.
2. Relationship (with God):
o A personal and intimate connection with God through faith, trust, and love.
o Rooted in grace rather than performance.
o Emphasizes communication (prayer), obedience from love (not fear), and transformation through the Holy Spirit.
3. Legalism:
o A rigid adherence to rules, laws, and rituals as a means to earn salvation or God’s approval.
o Prioritizes external behavior over internal heart transformation.
o Often leads to judgment, self-righteousness, and missing the true essence of grace.
Difference Between the Old Covenant and the New Covenant:
Category
Old Covenant (Mosaic Law) Before Jesus
New Covenant (Grace Through Christ) After Jesus Died and Rose again
Mediator
Moses (given on Mount Sinai)
Jesus Christ (fulfilled on the Cross)
Foundation
Law-based (Ten Commandments + 613 laws)
Grace-based (Faith in Jesus)
Sacrificial System
Repeated animal sacrifices for sin
Jesus as the final sacrifice (once for all)
Access to God
Through priests and temple
Direct access through Jesus
Salvation
Based on obedience to the Law
By grace through faith (Ephesians 2:8-9)
Holy Spirit
Came upon specific individuals for specific tasks
Lives within all believers (John 14:26)
Sign of the Covenant
Circumcision
The indwelling Holy Spirit
Key Takeaway:
Part 2: Religion vs. Relationship – The Common Misconceptions
Part 3: What True Biblical Community Looks Like
God never intended for us to do life alone. But community is more than a weekly gathering—it’s accountability, love in action, and walking with each other in faith.
Part 4: How to Build a Deep Relationship with God
Reflection & Journaling Prompts
📖 Faith & Relationship with God:
1. Do I have a personal relationship with God, or am I relying on church to feed my faith?
2. What does my prayer life look like? Is it routine, or do I truly talk to God?
3. When was the last time I spent time with God outside of a church setting?
4. What does worship mean to me beyond church services?
5. Am I actively seeking out biblical community, or am I just attending church?
📖 Living in Biblical Community:
6. Who in my life encourages my spiritual growth?
7. How do I contribute to my faith community? Am I truly present?
8. What holds me back from deeper relationships in my faith community?
📖 Breaking Free from Religious Mindsets:
9. What ‘religious’ teachings have made me feel disconnected from God?
10. What steps can I take today to grow my personal relationship with God?
Closing Encouragement & Prayer
🎧 Subscribe, Share, and Connect to my Socials- https://joyedavis.com/, FB, TikTok, Instagram and LinkedIn @ Joyfull_therapy, and YouTube The JoyFULL Woman.
Comment Questions below- I be glad to answer in next episode.
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By Joy E Davis, LCSWEpisode 4: Church vs. Relationship with God – Understanding the Difference
Religion vs. Relationship – What God Truly Wants from Us
Because here’s the truth: Church is NOT the same as a relationship with God. Sitting in a pew every Sunday, seeing familiar faces, and hearing a sermon is NOT what deepens your faith. Church is supposed to be a place of community, accountability, and love in action. But your personal relationship with God? That’s something that happens every single day—it’s about talking with Him, seeking Him, and growing in faith, not just attending a service. Let's talk about it.
Part 1: Church ≠ Relationship with God – Understanding the Difference
Definitions:
1. Religion:
o A structured system of beliefs, practices, and rituals centered around a higher power or divine authority.
o Often involves rules, traditions, and moral codes to guide individuals in their faith journey.
o Can become rigid or legalistic when the focus shifts from faith and relationship to rituals and works-based righteousness.
2. Relationship (with God):
o A personal and intimate connection with God through faith, trust, and love.
o Rooted in grace rather than performance.
o Emphasizes communication (prayer), obedience from love (not fear), and transformation through the Holy Spirit.
3. Legalism:
o A rigid adherence to rules, laws, and rituals as a means to earn salvation or God’s approval.
o Prioritizes external behavior over internal heart transformation.
o Often leads to judgment, self-righteousness, and missing the true essence of grace.
Difference Between the Old Covenant and the New Covenant:
Category
Old Covenant (Mosaic Law) Before Jesus
New Covenant (Grace Through Christ) After Jesus Died and Rose again
Mediator
Moses (given on Mount Sinai)
Jesus Christ (fulfilled on the Cross)
Foundation
Law-based (Ten Commandments + 613 laws)
Grace-based (Faith in Jesus)
Sacrificial System
Repeated animal sacrifices for sin
Jesus as the final sacrifice (once for all)
Access to God
Through priests and temple
Direct access through Jesus
Salvation
Based on obedience to the Law
By grace through faith (Ephesians 2:8-9)
Holy Spirit
Came upon specific individuals for specific tasks
Lives within all believers (John 14:26)
Sign of the Covenant
Circumcision
The indwelling Holy Spirit
Key Takeaway:
Part 2: Religion vs. Relationship – The Common Misconceptions
Part 3: What True Biblical Community Looks Like
God never intended for us to do life alone. But community is more than a weekly gathering—it’s accountability, love in action, and walking with each other in faith.
Part 4: How to Build a Deep Relationship with God
Reflection & Journaling Prompts
📖 Faith & Relationship with God:
1. Do I have a personal relationship with God, or am I relying on church to feed my faith?
2. What does my prayer life look like? Is it routine, or do I truly talk to God?
3. When was the last time I spent time with God outside of a church setting?
4. What does worship mean to me beyond church services?
5. Am I actively seeking out biblical community, or am I just attending church?
📖 Living in Biblical Community:
6. Who in my life encourages my spiritual growth?
7. How do I contribute to my faith community? Am I truly present?
8. What holds me back from deeper relationships in my faith community?
📖 Breaking Free from Religious Mindsets:
9. What ‘religious’ teachings have made me feel disconnected from God?
10. What steps can I take today to grow my personal relationship with God?
Closing Encouragement & Prayer
🎧 Subscribe, Share, and Connect to my Socials- https://joyedavis.com/, FB, TikTok, Instagram and LinkedIn @ Joyfull_therapy, and YouTube The JoyFULL Woman.
Comment Questions below- I be glad to answer in next episode.