So you’ve hopefully learned about yourself and your wants and needs and issues that you need to disclose or address. Now what about the other person you want to enter a dynamic with? Where do you start once you message someone whose profile looks interesting or respond to a message they’ve sent you? It may be exciting to jump straight into dynamic first but - Lace and Misty chat about why it;s worth it to start with the basics. Also in the news, the final update of Misty’s dips, one of us went on a date, and have a really weird dodgy dom. Trigger warning: we also briefly touch on BDSM vs abuse/domestic violence.

Resources:

Domestic violence resources -

Australia: https://www.1800respect.org.au/

United Kingdom: https://www.victimsupport.org.uk/crime-info/types-crime/domestic-abuse

United States: https://www.thehotline.org/resources/victims-and-survivors/ includes directory by state

Canada: http://endingviolencecanada.org/getting-help/ includes directory by province

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