It’s our very first female guest ever, as author and spanking kinkster Jillian Keenan joins Scott to discuss what it is about guys spanking each other that appeals to some women.

In the Real Dudes Spankin’ Real Dudes segment, we discuss a complex issue that Jillian has strong feelings about: Are kinks and fetishes a type of sexual orientation that we should treat differently from being gay or straight (or other)? Scott talks about some of the feedback he has gotten since coming out in episode 41 as asexual, and we discuss a recent Dan Savage letter from a straight guy who wants to be spanked by other men and how frequently dudes spank other dudes in her part of the spanking community.

In the Fantasy Life of Spanking, Jillian absolutely loves stories about Star Wars Jedi Master Qui-Gon Jinn spanking Padowan Obi Wan Kenobi, and really any spanking fan fiction revolving around a male mentor spanking a younger student (like Batman and Robin). We discuss why that is, and she details an amazing recreation of one of her favorite stories that some of her fans put together.

All of this, plus updates about Hot Seat Retreat and news about a new spanking party coming to Cleveland’s CLAW event, and a letter from a top who is getting mixed signals from a bottom.

Jillian Keenan’s book, “Sex with Shakespeare,” can be found at Amazon here: https://www.amazon.com/Sex-with-Shakespeare-audiobook/dp/B01BLV3UTY

Her YouTube channel is here: https://www.youtube.com/c/KinkingOutLoud

Her Patreon page is here: https://www.patreon.com/KinkingOutLoud

Music: Vivera / “I Don’t Give a Damn” (Instrumental Version) / courtesy of epidemicsound.com