Dudes Spankin' Dudes

The Texas All-State Spanking Party (also known as TASSP) is the biggest spanking event in the country, bringing hundreds together every summer. But we’ve never discussed it on our podcast because it’s a pansexual event without a lot of interest for dudes who spank dudes. Or so we might think. Scott is joined by Jaden and Mikey, who attended TASSP this year. They talk about the fun they’ve had, finding play with other dudes, what we can learn from the event, and whether more people in our community should consider attending. Listen on dudes.

More about TASSP here: https://texasallstatespankingparty.com/

Upcoming 2026 Events:

CanSpanks Sept. 21-27 (www.canspanks.com/)

Bad Ass Weekend Oct 14-18 (bawevent.com)

Music: Vivera / “I Don’t Give a Damn” (Instrumental Version) / courtesy of epidemicsound.com

Whether you’re in the market for new punishment implements or thinking about making your own, this is the episode for you. Scott is joined by Archer and Alex, who in 2025 took over ownership of popular online implement vendor Cane-iac. They talk about how they found themselves becoming paddle, cane, and strap manufacturers, maintaining ties to the spanking community, and tips on making and maintaining your own punishment tools. Listen on dudes for tips on keeping those paddles sturdy and those canes supple.

Visit Cane-iac at cane-iac.com

Upcoming spanking events:

Camp Red Tails: July 16-21 (campredtails.com)

Hot Seat Vegas: July 22-26 (hotseatvegas.com)

CanSpanks Sept. 21-27 (www.canspanks.com/)

BAW Oct 14-18 (bawevent.com)

Music: Vivera / “I Don’t Give a Damn” (Instrumental Version) / courtesy of epidemicsound.com

Have you ever fantasized about hypnotizing that hot bartender who flirts with you into coming home with you so you can get him across your knee for a good, firm spanking?

Well, too bad. That’s not how it works. But that doesn’t mean that hypnosis can’t actually improve your spanking play by helping you find your headspace either as a stern top or a misbehaving bottom. Steve joins HotBotScott to talk about the intersection between hypnosis and kink. Listen on Dudes!

Upcoming events!

Hot Seat Retreat: March 18-22 (HotseatPS.com)

Bad Ass Weekend Unplugged: April 9-12 (Bawevent.com)

Camp Red Tails: July 16-21 (campredtails.com)

Hot Seat Vegas: July 22-26 (hotseatvegas.com)

Music: Vivera / “I Don’t Give a Damn” (Instrumental Version) / courtesy of epidemicsound.com

Hot Seat Vegas is back for 2026 at a new resort downtown. The event will run from July 22-26. Registration will be opening on Jan. 24, and we encourage you to register early if you're planning to attend.

For more information and prices (and to register when the time comes) visit us at hotseatvegas.com.

What does 15 years of growth and change in the male spanking community look like? Scott has recorded this episode live at Bad Ass Weekend in Augusta, Georgia, to chat with the organizers about what they’ve seen and learned hosting an event for 15 years. What started as a small gathering of guys on a campground has become the biggest, most-attended male spanking event in North America. Probably the world! Listen on, dudes, for some fun reminiscing and thoughts about how big our community has gotten.

In addition, we’ve got news (and a venue change) for the third Hot Seat Vegas, scheduled for July 22-26, 2026. (The episode itself incorrectly says it runs until the 27th) And for some audience participation, we’ve got examples of spanking “red flags” and “green flags” to go over.

For more information on Bad Ass Weekend, visit bawevent.com

For more information on Hot Seat Vegas, visit hotseatvegas.com.

Music: Vivera / “I Don’t Give a Damn” (Instrumental Version) / courtesy of epidemicsound.com

Did you know there’s other things you can do with a butt besides spanking it? It’s wild to think about! Scott is joined this episode by Ryan, who enjoys incorporating insertion play into the spankings he dishes out, bringing in butt plugs, thermometers, and even figging. It’s a way to bring in some different sensations to your boy’s butt when he’s being punished and can add new levels of humiliation into a spanking scene. Listen on, dudes, if you’re looking to add some variety to your sessions.

Also, Ryan attended Camp Red Tails for the first time this summer and Scott helped organize the second ever Hot Seat Vegas. They both share hot stories from each event.

Links:

jock-spank.com

otkla.com

bawevent.com

Music: Vivera / “I Don’t Give a Damn” (Instrumental Version) / courtesy of epidemicsound.com

Do you wanna cry, boy? Being spanked to tears is probably one of the biggest fantasies in spanking. It is also one of the hardest fantasies to achieve. Scott visited London and reconnected with his original Bully, who got him back into bottoming (and who first appeared all the way back in Episode 3). There he was spanked to tears for the first time in an extremely long time. So how did it happen? Scott is joined by Steven to talk about how and why crying happens in a spanking scene and how to set realistic expectations.

In addition, Steven fills the community in on how the reception went for his spanking exhibit at the Leather Archives and Museum in Chicago: “Paddles and Switches and Straps, Oh My! The Dynamic Community of Adult Male Spanking.” Turnout was excellent and it’s great to see a kink and leather museum give special attention to our fetish! Check out the Leather Archives here: https://leatherarchives.org/. The exhibit runs through the end of August.

Scott appeared recently on another spanking podcast, “Never Too Old for Agoodspanking,” Check it out here: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/never-too-old-for-agoodspankin--4594541

Music: Vivera / “I Don’t Give a Damn” (Instrumental Version) / courtesy of epidemicsound.com

Another Hot Seat Retreat in Palm Springs has come and gone, and HotBotScott is joined this episode by SleepyBap to chat about the spanktastic times they had this March. Spoilers: The weather was perfect this year, especially compared to last year’s wind and rain, and there were many, many, many spankings. Naughty misbehaving boys were disciplined by their dads, wayward students and jocks were paddled by principals and coaches, and bullies roved the grounds, handing out wedgies and tormenting their prey—consensually of course. Listen on, dudes, for all the details.

Upcoming events:

OTKLA: May 30. https://www.otkla.com/home

Camp Red Tails: July 17-22. https://www.campredtails.com/

Hot Seat Vegas, July 30-August 3. https://www.hotseatvegas.com/home

Bad Ass Weekend, Oct 15-19. https://bawevent.com/

Music: Vivera / “I Don’t Give a Damn” (Instrumental Version) / courtesy of epidemicsound.com

You’ve found the perfect disciplinarian who knows exactly what to say to you to get you into that headspace where you can just want to say to him, “Yes, sir, I deserve a spanking,” and mean it. He knows what you need, how much you need it, and the right way to give it to you.

The problem? You live in Yonkers and he lives in Albuquerque. So how do you make it work if you can’t see each other face-to-face? Long-distance, directed discipline scenes have been a part of the spanking community for a long time. But how exactly do you pull them off so that it feels genuine for both sides? Listen on dudes, as HotbotScott is joined by Steven and Mike to talk you all through it.

(Note: This episode was recorded before the announcement that Skype would be shutting down its services.)

Links:

“Bad Lads, Strict Sirs and the World of Adult Male Spanking”: http://badladsandstrictsirs.com/

The Chicago Leather Archives and Museum: https://leatherarchives.org

Music: Vivera / “I Don’t Give a Damn” (Instrumental Version) / courtesy of epidemicsound.com

Would you believe Dudes Spankin’ Dudes has been around for more than five years and nearly 60 episodes and we’ve never actually done an episode about hand spankings? That’s a terrible oversight over which Scott should be spanked. And he will be!

Scott is joined again by Sean to talk about what they both love about hand spankings and give some tips on both giving and receiving. Then they delve a little bit into spanking roleplay and how to establish realistic expectations when you’re new. Listen on Dudes, and find out what Sean plans to do to Scott’s butt in Palm Springs in March!

Bonus links:

Check out the “Sips and Smacks” Podcast: https://www.sipsandsmacks.com/ (Scott is a guest on Episode 97)

Hot Seat Retreat 2025 in Palm Springs, March 19-23: https://www.hotseatps.com/home

Hot Seat Vegas 2025 in Las Vegas, July 30-August 3: https://www.hotseatvegas.com/home

Music: Vivera / “I Don’t Give a Damn” (Instrumental Version) / courtesy of epidemicsound.com