You’ve found the perfect disciplinarian who knows exactly what to say to you to get you into that headspace where you can just want to say to him, “Yes, sir, I deserve a spanking,” and mean it. He knows what you need, how much you need it, and the right way to give it to you.

The problem? You live in Yonkers and he lives in Albuquerque. So how do you make it work if you can’t see each other face-to-face? Long-distance, directed discipline scenes have been a part of the spanking community for a long time. But how exactly do you pull them off so that it feels genuine for both sides? Listen on dudes, as HotbotScott is joined by Steven and Mike to talk you all through it.

(Note: This episode was recorded before the announcement that Skype would be shutting down its services.)

Links:

“Bad Lads, Strict Sirs and the World of Adult Male Spanking”: http://badladsandstrictsirs.com/

The Chicago Leather Archives and Museum: https://leatherarchives.org

Music: Vivera / “I Don’t Give a Damn” (Instrumental Version) / courtesy of epidemicsound.com

Would you believe Dudes Spankin’ Dudes has been around for more than five years and nearly 60 episodes and we’ve never actually done an episode about hand spankings? That’s a terrible oversight over which Scott should be spanked. And he will be!

Scott is joined again by Sean to talk about what they both love about hand spankings and give some tips on both giving and receiving. Then they delve a little bit into spanking roleplay and how to establish realistic expectations when you’re new. Listen on Dudes, and find out what Sean plans to do to Scott’s butt in Palm Springs in March!

Bonus links:

Check out the “Sips and Smacks” Podcast: https://www.sipsandsmacks.com/ (Scott is a guest on Episode 97)

Hot Seat Retreat 2025 in Palm Springs, March 19-23: https://www.hotseatps.com/home

Hot Seat Vegas 2025 in Las Vegas, July 30-August 3: https://www.hotseatvegas.com/home

Music: Vivera / “I Don’t Give a Damn” (Instrumental Version) / courtesy of epidemicsound.com

We are pleased to announce that Hot Seat Vegas has found a new home and will return in 2025 from Wednesday, July 30th through Sunday, August 3rd.

Registration for Vegas will open on Saturday, February 1, at 10 a.m. Pacific time (7 a.m. East Coast time). Visit hotseatvegas.com for more details and prices.

Hot on the heels of hurricane Helene, Bad Ass Weekend returned to Augusta, Georgia, in October. There were upturned trees, but more importantly, upturned bottoms, particularly Scott’s. Scott is joined this episode by Sean, who attended Bad Ass Weekend for the first time this year. We have stories to share about hot spankings out by the pool, backtalking authorities and paying the price for it, and wonderful experiences with new friends. All that and Scott’s new nickname (HotBotScott), as well as information about what’s happening with Las Vegas. Listen on, dudes!

Bad Ass Weekend: https://bawevent.com/

Hot Seat Vegas: https://www.hotseatvegas.com/home

OTK LA: https://www.otkla.com/home

Music: Vivera / “I Don’t Give a Damn” (Instrumental Version) / courtesy of epidemicsound.com

Hey dudes, Bad Ass Weekend is just around the corner. and Scott is joined by Bruce, one of the event organizers known for his love of providing aftercare to any spanked bottoms who need it.

Aftercare following a spanking can help provide a chance not just to help a butt physically recover from a spanking, but also for both the top and bottom to continue to reinforce their roles with each other. It can even, of course, lead to cuddling, comforting, and sex.

But not every bottom wants that kind of aftercare, and not every top is comfortable in providing everything a bottom might want. So, it’s important for tops and bottoms to communicate what they want—or don’t want—after a spanking session is over. Listen on dudes, to learn more.

All of this and a quick explanation about some rule changes at Etsy about the types of BDSM and adult gear they allow to be sold through the site. Oh, and the pink lanyards are coming to Bad Ass Weekend!

Bad Ass Weekend: BAWevent.com

Etsy’s adult content policies: https://www.etsy.com/legal/policy/adult-nudity-and-sexual-content/1269612959532

Music: Vivera / “I Don’t Give a Damn” (Instrumental Version) / courtesy of epidemicsound.com

Hey all! Time to mark your calendars. Hot Seat Retreat in Palm Springs will be returning in 2025 on March 19-23. If you want to enter the lottery for one of the rooms at host resort CCBC, you'll want to register once it opens on Saturday Sept. 14. You'll have until 11:59 p.m. Pacific Time on Sept. 14 to enter the lottery. Listen for more details.

And information about registration and room rates can be found on our site: https://www.hotseatps.com/home

Scott is back home after hosting the first Hot Seat Vegas and returns with a new outlook on his spanking life. And that new outlook is one where he is ass up over a man’s knee, getting spanked as much and as frequently as possible. Scott is re-embracing and reclaiming his bottomhood. He’s joined this episode by returning guest Steve, who gave Scott four of the 36 separate spankings he got his birthday weekend. Listen on, Dudes, to hear hot stories about hot spankings in one of the hottest cities in America.

Bad Ass Weekend: Bawevent.com

Avatar L.A.: Avatarla.org

Justin and Trevor's spanking blog: https://justintrevorblss.blogspot.com

July is one of the hottest months of the year, and thanks to a couple of spanking events that month, we’re going to make it even hotter. Insert as many “global warming” puns and jokes as you see fit as you rub your sore bottom—or somebody else’s! Scott is joined by Tony, a.k.a. Bearspanks, to help newbies know what to expect at their first spanking event and also to provide some tips for anybody who is thinking about getting or giving a spanking involving somebody they’ve just met. Pack your bags, your paddles, and don’t forget your belt, and listen on dudes.

Links:

The Spank Bank Podcast: https://soundcloud.com/thespankbank-774333226

Hot Seat Vegas: https://www.hotseatvegas.com/home

Camp Red Tails: https://www.campredtails.com/home

Music: Vivera / “I Don’t Give a Damn” (Instrumental Version) / courtesy of epidemicsound.com

TL;DR version: Register for Hot Seat Vegas by Sunday, June 9 to make sure that you'll get a room placement in the same buildings as the other attendees.

Also, we're looking for attendees who want to put on activities or meetings that help people connect in the conference rooms we've got for our event. Message RedSpankScott on Whappz if you'd like to host an event or activity, or if you're interested in helping run games for our planned Friday game night!

More details about Hot Seat Vegas here: HotSeatVegas.com.

More information on Tuscany Suites, Las Vegas here: https://www.tuscanylv.com/

Another Hot Seat Retreat has come and gone, and Scott is joined by Dean, who attended Hot Seat Retreat in Palm Springs for the first time in March and got spanked a whole lot. He tells us all about it. Mother Nature decided to make her presence known this year in some unpleasant ways, but we powered through, warming ourselves up nicely with the heat of some very, very sore bottoms. Listen on, dudes, if you want to hear how Hot Seat Retreat’s roleplay interest tracks brought some new opportunities for punishment to manifest.

Valuable links:

OTK LA: otkla.com/home

Hot Seat Vegas: hotseatvegas.com/home

Camp Red Tails: campredtails.com

Music: Vivera / “I Don’t Give a Damn” (Instrumental Version) / courtesy of epidemicsound.com