Dudes Spankin' Dudes

For Episode 46, Scott is joined by Stephen and Mike, two members of our spanking community who are working on a special project: a book about our scene and its members. They chat about their plan, what they’re looking for, what they are hoping to produce, and how you can participate.

If you want to participate in their survey, visit: https://forms.gle/3hnCcTTPgg4qa1DQ6

Music: Vivera / “I Don’t Give a Damn” (Instrumental Version) / courtesy of epidemicsound.com

As Monkeypox spreads within the male community this summer, Scott felt it necessary to record a special piece with warnings and tips. Just because you're not engaging in sex, that doesn't mean you're not at risk of either getting or spreading Monkeypox.

Some information from the CDC on social gatherings, safe sex, and Monkeypox here: https://www.cdc.gov/poxvirus/monkeypox/pdf/MPX_Social_Gatherings_Safer_Sex-508.pdf

Some spanking implements are rigid. Some spanking implements are flexible. By the same token, some guys have rigid spanking fantasies where the scene plays out in very particular pre-determined ways. Some others have more flexible fantasies that revolve a bit more about evolving or improvisational play based on reactions during the scene.

Both approaches (and both types of implements) are perfectly valid in the spanking scene. But it’s important to know the ins and outs of not just the tools but the types of play. A person with a rigid spanking fantasy may have a difficult time adjusting to a more flexible player and vice-versa. Scott is joined by Jaden from Whappz to discuss and advise.

Don’t forget, Bad Ass Weekend is coming up in October: Bawevent.com.

And mark your schedules for Hot Seat Retreat next March 16-19, 2023: hotseatps.com.

Music: Vivera / “I Don’t Give a Damn” (Instrumental Version) / courtesy of epidemicsound.com

Our second Hot Seat Retreat has come and gone, and Scott is joined by attendees Randy (a.k.a. RedBearSpanker) and Tony (a.k.a. BearSpanks) to discuss all the fun of the event. Lots of swats were dished out, Scott got bullied and wedgied quite a bit, a pool party led to some wet bottoms getting paddled, and a good time was (mostly) had by all.

In other news, Dudes Spankin’ Dudes now has a Discord server. If you want to join, message Scott on the Twitter feed (https://twitter.com/DudesSpankDudes) or look up Scott on Whappz (RedSpankScott) and send him a message.

Music: Vivera / “I Don’t Give a Damn” (Instrumental Version) / courtesy of epidemicsound.com

It’s Hot Seat Retreat time! But for those of you unable to join us out in Palm Springs, Scott managed to squeeze in a fun episode about some important spanking history connected to Man’s Hand Films, which has just recently shut down as a company.

Scott is joined by Mike (a.k.a. StricTop) and Phil (a.k.a. SFspank), who have launched a brand new m/m spanking art archive. The initial focus is on the artwork and contents of old issues of the now-defunct “Red Tails” magazine that Man’s Hand Films produced. We talk about how they started the archive, the work involved, why it’s important, and commissioning new art from erotic artists online. And we also reminisce about the days of Man’s Hand videos and some of our favorite old movies of theirs.

Check out Mike and Phil’s archive here: www.gayspankart.com.

Mike's Twitter feed is here: https://twitter.com/spank_gay

Music: Vivera / “I Don’t Give a Damn” (Instrumental Version) / courtesy of epidemicsound.com

Hey out there to any dudes attending Hot Seat Retreat. If you’re looking to get your hands on Scott’s ass while he’s involved in his hosting duties, please listen to these guidelines.

Yes, Scott wants to be bullied and spanked all weekend long while he's serving as host and he'll be attending as a bottom. He takes a few minutes here to outline his consent and what he’s giving all of you permission to do to him. His poor butt is already quivering in anticipation for what’s to come.

Please visit our site at HotSeatPS.com for info about the event. If you’re already registered to attend, please get active on our forums as folks schedule fun spanking activities.

Music: Vivera / “I Don’t Give a Damn” (Instrumental Version) / courtesy of epidemicsound.com

It’s our very first female guest ever, as author and spanking kinkster Jillian Keenan joins Scott to discuss what it is about guys spanking each other that appeals to some women.

In the Real Dudes Spankin’ Real Dudes segment, we discuss a complex issue that Jillian has strong feelings about: Are kinks and fetishes a type of sexual orientation that we should treat differently from being gay or straight (or other)? Scott talks about some of the feedback he has gotten since coming out in episode 41 as asexual, and we discuss a recent Dan Savage letter from a straight guy who wants to be spanked by other men and how frequently dudes spank other dudes in her part of the spanking community.

In the Fantasy Life of Spanking, Jillian absolutely loves stories about Star Wars Jedi Master Qui-Gon Jinn spanking Padowan Obi Wan Kenobi, and really any spanking fan fiction revolving around a male mentor spanking a younger student (like Batman and Robin). We discuss why that is, and she details an amazing recreation of one of her favorite stories that some of her fans put together.

All of this, plus updates about Hot Seat Retreat and news about a new spanking party coming to Cleveland’s CLAW event, and a letter from a top who is getting mixed signals from a bottom.

Jillian Keenan’s book, “Sex with Shakespeare,” can be found at Amazon here: https://www.amazon.com/Sex-with-Shakespeare-audiobook/dp/B01BLV3UTY

Her YouTube channel is here: https://www.youtube.com/c/KinkingOutLoud

Her Patreon page is here: https://www.patreon.com/KinkingOutLoud

Music: Vivera / “I Don’t Give a Damn” (Instrumental Version) / courtesy of epidemicsound.com

Jaden of Whappz is back with Scott on the podcast for a review of CLAW in Los Angeles on Thanksgiving weekend. Scott did the work to put together some panels on spanking and a big spanking party. Jaden was there as well, and the two discuss what they’ve learned (and how awesome it was to have major spanking presence at a big leather festival).

In the second half of the podcast, Scott “comes out” as asexual, something he had been on the edge of and thinking about for quite some time. But after spending a weekend with 1,000+ hot and kinky dudes and realizing he didn’t want to have sex with any of them, it was time to come to terms with the truth. Jaden is also asexual, and the two of them talk about what it means to be super kinky, but not want to actually engage in typical intercourse.

Come out to CLAW on Nov. 24-28 at the Westin Bonaventure Hotel in downtown Los Angeles. and have a great spanking time. Scott goes over all the important details of the Bad Boys Spanking Party and other fun activities.

If you book a hotel room now, you will receive one free five-day event ticket for CLAW - just use CODE: C21-HOTELPACKAGE at www.clawinfo.org. There will also be day, night and vendor mart passes available for purchase soon. Vaccination is required to attend!

Scott is back from Bad Ass Weekend and is joined by Aaryn to discuss the amazing time they had at the first major U.S. spanking weekend to take place since the COVID lockdown. Pledges were hazed, naughty sons were disciplined by upset dads, and wrestlers grappled for dominance in some super-hot spanking activities.

Also, Scott provides some more details about the upcoming Bad Boys Spanking Party and other spanktastic activities at CLAW in Los Angeles on Thanskgiving weekend. Spanking booth, anybody? Hope to see you there!

Bad Ass Weekend's website: bawevent.com

CLAW's website: clawinfo.org

Aaryn's Twitter feed: https://twitter.com/aarynleesparxxx

Music: Vivera / “I Don’t Give a Damn” (Instrumental Version) / courtesy of epidemicsound.com