Dudes Spankin' Dudes

Scott is joined this episode by Isaac (izkboy on Whappz and SpankThis Hookups), a trans dude from New York who is new to the spanking scene but managed to get some action in before COVID-19 shut everything down.

(FYI, Bad Ass Weekend for October has been cancelled.)

In the Real Dudes Spankin’ Real Dudes segment, Isaac talks about the mostly very positive experiences he has had joining the spanking scene as a trans dude and has tips for everybody.

In The Fantasy Life of Spanking segment, Isaac talks about his childhood fantasies of having older brothers (nine of them!) to bully him and give him spankings and how that translates into adult spanking fantasies. Special shout-out here to the “Brother in Charge” series at Straight Lads Spanked for anybody looking for spanking porn that can help scratch this itch.

And we take a question from a possible newbie to the spanking scene who worries he may be too old, especially as a bottom. Don’t worry! We’ll get you a sore butt! As soon as this stupid pandemic is over.

(Apologies for any sound quality issues. Scott inadvertently recorded the entire conversation on his webcam mic and not his headset and didn't realize until afterwards. Clearly, he has gone wayyyy too long without a good beating.)

Doug (from episode 30 about Hot Seat Retreat) is back to talk some more. He and Scott and Jaden worked on a great video to hopefully keep all you dudes entertained during our shared Coronavirus Lockdown, featuring interviews with guys involved with Sting, SpankThis, Bad Ass Weekend, and others. Check out the video at Hotseatps.com.

In the Real Dudes Spanking Real Dudes segment, Doug shares what it’s like to be married to another spanking fetishist, how their relationship works, how they negotiate play with other guys, how they handle issues, and how they keep their fetish interest fresh. It’s a useful discussion for anybody thinking that they might want to settle down with a spanking partner some day.

In the Fantasy Life of Spanking, Doug reveals that he lives out a very common spanking fantasy: Being punished by a personal trainer. Yes, he over the past several years has been literally whipped into shape. He talks about how he got started and what people should think about before they actually try to get a dude to beat their asses in order to motivate them.

And Doug even has a video on SpankingTube shows what these sessions and the discipline looks like here: https://www.spankingtube.com/video/87962/trainer-with-a-paddle

Scott is joined this month by buddy Mike, who was his next-door neighbor at March's Hot Seat Retreat.

In the Real Dudes Spankin' Real Dudes segment, Mike is a big fan of self-spanking, and in a time where we shouldn't be out trying to hook up with each other, no matter how badly we need a spanking, Mike has tips on applying heat to your own seat.

In the Fantasy Life of Spanking we talk about fantasies about real life "accountability" spankings and punishments. How do you know you really want to be spanked for real-life reasons and how is it different from just wanting to get spanked. Mike explains.

Oh, and speaking of real-life spanking accountability, check out the Dudes Spankin's Dudes Twitter feed and weigh in on how much Scott should have to paddle himself for his terrible, terrible quarantine Mohawk: https://twitter.com/DudesSpankDudes

Hot Seat Retreat in Palm Springs has come and gone and was a wonderful success (with a few things we'll need to hammer out in future retreats--and there WILL be future retreats). Scott and Jaden are joined by Doug, the guy who actually came up with the idea of putting on a new spanking event in Palm Springs, and we talk about how things went and what we learned.

Also, a short discussion about fetish play and the coronavirus. In short, treat social distancing seriously. We have members of the spanking community who are in risk categories because they're older or HIV positive.

If you want to know when Colby Jansen's spankathon video is set to come out, follow his Twitter feed: https://twitter.com/COLBYJANSENXXX

And keep an eye out the official Hot Seat Retreat website. We're already hammering out the dates for next March!: https://www.hotseatps.com/

It's our last podcast episode before Hot Seat Retreat in Palm Springs in March. Jaden joins yet again with friend Anthony.

In our "Real Dudes Spanking Real Dudes" segment, Anthony talks about his first experiences attending fetish events. He went to Bad Ass Weekend for the first time last October and Mid-Atlantic Leather for the first time in February. With Hot Seat Retreat just around the corner, we discuss a number of tips to make your first time at a big fetish event more successful.

In our "Fantasy Life of Spanking" section, Anthony and Scott share a love of fantasies and stories that revolve around the use of spanking machines. We talk about what turns us on about the sadism of automated punishment. And maybe it doesn't have to be just a fantasy?

Jaden is back with another spanking buddy, Kevin, here to talk about their fun time at Mid-Atlantic Leather (M.A.L.) in January.

Speaking of which, in the "Real Dudes Spankin' Real Dudes" segment, M.A.L. got some negative publicity from a young gay conservative at the Washington Examiner who thinks that fetish and leather play makes the LGBT community look bad. Scott, Jaden, and Kevin discuss the problems with his opinion piece, which you can read here: https://www.washingtonexaminer.com/opinion/dcs-degenerate-leather-weekend-annihilates-gay-progress

In the Fantasy Life of Spanking, Kevin and Jaden discuss what it's like to start filming your own amateur porn. If you're interested, there's a lot of fun to be had.

And Hot Seat Retreat is just a month away! There's still time to register here: https://www.hotseatps.com/

What better way to celebrate ringing in the new year with a discussion of Adult Baby/Diaper Lovers (Or ABDL) and their connections to the spanking scene? Scott is joined by regular and Whappz co-founder Jaden and his buddy Richard, a member of both the ABDL and the spanking scene. We discuss what the two communities have in common and the opportunities for daddies out there in the spanking scene to find some guys in some firm need for discipline.

In other news, Camp Red Tails is back on for July! And Jaden and Scott give the latest update on how things are going with Hot Seat Retreat in March.

For more on Hot Seat Retreat and to register, visit the site here: www.hotseatps.com/

Jaden is back to join Scott as we announce some big news: The launch of Hot Seat Retreat, a new spanking weekend event planned for March 5-8, 2020 at CCBC resort in Palm Springs, California.

Scott and Jaden go over what prompted them to launch this new event and want to encourage all y'all to come on out.

Also: Unfortunately, Camp Red Tails this summer is in trouble; RedSpankScott is now also HotBotScott when he's feeling like a bratty bottom, and Jaden and Scott go over their participation at the 10th Anniversary of Bad Ass Weekend.

For more on Hot Seat Retreat and to register, visit the site here: https://www.hotseatps.com/

If you want more info about CCBC, the host resort, visit them here: https://www.ccbcresorthotel.com/

For episode 25, Scott is joined by the long-awaited straight dude! Cutter the Sourpatch Kid, who is on the board of the L.A. BDSM society Threshold, joins Scott to talk about why he likes spanking other dudes, the right way to approach heterosexual guys if you’re interested in spanking play with them, a bunch of things you SHOULDN’T do when approaching hetero dudes, and what fantasies straight dudes do and do not have.

More about the Threshold Society here: https://threshold.org/

Scott is joined for the latest episode by J.R., whom listeners know better as Bossman. Yes, the guy who beats Scott's butt on the regular stops by for a chat. And maybe a threat or two.

In the Real Dudes Spanking Real Dudes section, J.R. talks about his membership in Avatar, an L.A. club that teaches men how to engage in safe BDSM play, including spanking. We discuss how the Internet and the rise of millennials own interpretation of leather and BDSM culture has changed the way we look at the scene and how these organizations are adapting.

Avatar's Facebook page can be found here: https://www.facebook.com/groups/AvatarclubLA/

In the Fantasy Life of Spanking, Scott and J.R. respond to some messages to a young newbie top in the spanking scene who is afraid to actually get involved because he's worried about his heavily sadistic fantasies. We talk about how it's actually pretty normal to have extreme and even nonconsensual fantasies. What matters is how you adapt those fantasies into safe and consensual play with partners.

And as a bonus, Scott found a straight dude into spanking dudes to come on a future podcast. Send questions Scott's way!