Dudes Spankin' Dudes

Some good news to start. The Los Angeles Moonburn spanking party is back at it's old location at Threshold at the familiar day and time (the first Saturday of the month from noon-4 p.m.) Scott explains the details.

Then, Scott is joined by David and Bruce, two of the organizers of Bad Ass Weekend, the all-male weekend spanking gathering held in Augusta, Georgia. This year marks the 10th anniversary of the even, and David and Bruce explain the amount of work that goes into pulling this all off.

This year's gathering is from Oct. 17-20. Scott is again planning to be there. Get more information here: https://www.bawevent.com/

Jaden is back to let us all know that his spanking app Whappz is now available for Android devices, yay! And Scott updates on what's going on with the L.A. Moonburn parties.

In the Real Dudes Spankin' Real Dudes segment, Jaden talks about the work that goes into hosting private spanking parties, and what you'll want to keep in mind if you're thinking of having some of your own.

In the Fantasy Life of Spanking segment, we talk about the spanking erotical legacy of Cliff's Spanking Central site, which has ceased production of new movies but is still around and you can still join and download past videos here: http://spankingcentral.com/

And we take a question from a listener wondering how much he should "act" like he's struggling as a bottom, even when he's not.

Jaden from Whappz is back joining Scott for an episode that has some fun news from Jaden (Whappz coming to Android; fun at Mid-Atlantic Leather) and some bad news from Scott (Moonburn loses its home; Tumblr kicks out porn).

Before getting to the main event, Scott explains the sudden and surprising closure of Threshold, the BDSM club in North Hollywood where the monthly Moonburn spanking party takes place. Moonburn organizers are busy looking for a new location, so stay tuned.

In the Real Dudes Spankin' Real Dudes segment, Jaden reports from Washington, D.C., where he attended the annual Mid-Atlantic Leather (MAL) convention and had lots of fun spanking and being spanked.

In the Fantasy Life of Spanking, we talk about how Tumblr made the rather radical decision to dump all adult content from the site (essentially committing suicide) and where people are going as an alternative (check out bdsmlr.com).

All this and a question from a listener about how to introduce a partner who isn't into spanking but is willing to give it a try.

Podcast co-creator Brian/Croup returns for an episode because he and Scott just came back from a whirlwind spanking good vacation in Augusta, Georgia, for Bad Ass Weekend #9. They get into details about spankings, both delivered and received (and that includes Scott) and how amazing the entire event was. Y'all should consider going next year! Details about Bad Ass Weekend here: www.bawevent.com.

In other news, Scott has decided to take a spin at self-publishing some of his spanking fiction. An anthology of his early chapters of "Aaron's Game" are now available as a Kindle ebook for the low-low price of $2.99. Check it out here: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07JFJSFCS

A very special guest joins Scott for Episode 19: Hunky porn star (PornHub's 2018 Top Bear Performer), and rugby jock Colby Jansen. Scott has been spanked by Colby twice now (and apparently there' s more to come).

In the "Real Dudes Spankin' Real Dudes" segment, Colby talks about how he got into the porn scene, how he discovered he was into spanking and BDSM, his escort work, and some etiquette if you're looking to find an escort to help you fulfill your spanking fantasies.

In the "Fantasy Life of Spanking," Colby and Scott talk about how we all can push the major porn studios like Kink.com to maybe show a bit more spanking in their videos and the right way to give them feedback.

Want to see more of Colby? Check out his fan site here: https://onlyfans.com/colbyjansenxxx

Also, in other news, Scott is going to be attending Bad Ass Weekend in October in Augusta, Georgia. Several other of his podcast regulars will also be in attendance. There's still time to register. Information on the event here: http://bawevent.com/

Sidney's back to join Scott to talk about some more heavy-duty bottom stuff. Also, porn star Colby Jansen showed up at the Moonburn Party and it took Scott all of 60 seconds to go flying over his knee for a spanking. So now he and Sidney have that in common.

There was also an accidental death in the BDSM community in Los Angeles, and Scott and Sidney go over what happened. It's an important subject for anybody who is using spanking as a springboard into other parts of S&M play.

For the rest of the podcast:

In the "Real Dudes Spankin' Real Dudes" segment, Scott and Sidney talk about double-teaming--when a single bottom submits to two spanking tops. Scott has done it a bunch as a top (and as of a week ago, once as a bottom). Sidney has done it a bunch as a bottom. We discuss what you should think about before submitting to an intense experience.

In the "Fantasy Life of Spanking" we discuss leather and leather daddy fantasies. Leather, of course, plays a huge role in the gay BDSM scene. It's less prominent in the spanking scene, but if you do have leather fantasies, we discuss how you might approach some leathermen to ask them to beat your ass.

And we answer a question from a podcast listener who is concerned about coming across like a jerk if he doesn't want to play with somebody at a party or event.

Scott's Guest for Episode 17 is Copper, an extremely well-known member of the American scene of dude-spankers. If you don't know him for his role in Man's Hand spanking videos, then you most certainly have seen his spanking artwork.

For our "Real Dudes Spankin' Real Dudes" segment, Copper talks about his role in helping the Los Angeles spanking community get together and torment each other and the sorts of challenges he and the leaders of the Moonburn group have in keeping a party going for years.

In our "Fantasy Life of Spanking" section we delve into Copper's background in spanking art, the struggles of trying to find markets for fetish art in the era of the internet, and how to support fetish-friendly artists.

We've got Big Daddy Vegas back for a third episode. And we've got info on a new spanking party in New York City appropriately called "Welts." (Check out the host's Tumblr page here: https://nycinfernoparty.tumblr.com/)

In our "Real Dudes Spankin' Real Dudes" segment, it's been a while since we've talked about particular implements. Daddy Vegas is a master at the belt and straps, so we spent some time talking about how to use them, and how they feel, and what to do when you're inexperienced with them (watch out for those balls!).

In the "Fantasy Life of Spanking" section, humiliation plays an important role in nearly every fantasy that involves spanking, so we decided to take some time to discuss why that is, how humiliation play allows for longer scenes, and how it allows for individual sessions to be more memorable and unique.

All this and a question from a newcomer struggling with online communication with tops about getting spankings.

Jaden is back as a co-host this episode! We have fun news for Dudes into Spankin' and also into IPhones. Also, there's some straight dudes into spanking with other dudes who are willing to answer your questions.

In "Real Dudes Spanking Real Dudes," Jaden is here to follow up on Episode 7, where we introduced Whappz, a connection site for dudes into spanking Jaden has designed to become an app. But it was a struggle to get Apple to let it into the App store. It's finally available, and Jaden talks about what he had to go through to get Apple to approve an app to help people with specific fetishes connect.

In the "Fantasy Life of Spanking" segment, Jaden and Scott talk about "headspace" and how fantasies help you get in the mindset for spank play. We tend to associate this behavior with roleplay, but it's a bit more complicated than that. It's not just a performance. It's about psychologically putting yourself in the right mental space to accept and enjoy the spanking experience. Jaden and Scott talking about spanking videos that helped them figure out their own "headspaces" for spanking play.

Happy New Year! Big Daddy Vegas is back with RedSpankScott for another episode. We've got a bit of an update on the state of Whappz, focus of episode 7. Beyond that:

In our "Real Dudes Spankin' Real Dudes" segment, we talk about resolutions for the New Year, particularly in terms of spankings, obviously. But also in terms of making friends and communicating with other guys in the spanking community.

In our "Fantasy Life of Spanking" segment, Scott and Frank share a fondness for jocks, as do many dudes into spanking dudes or dudes who are into dudes in general. We talk about the fantasy and about Frank's background as an actual, honest-to-god Jock.

We've also got a couple of questions from listeners at the end. And apologies for the drop in sound quality for the last 10 minutes or so. Clearly it's time for Scott to get a new headset.