Dudes Spankin' Dudes

Merry Christmas, Happy Hanukkah , and Happy Holidays in general. Scott is back after taking November off and joined by Big Daddy Vegas. Apologies for the break between episodes, but Scott had a good reason, which he explains. Also, if you're in the Pittsburgh area, we have info on a relatively new spanking party.

In our "Real Dudes Spankin' Real Dudes" section, the podcast has been kind of bottom heavy (Scott does like his dudes a little bottom heavy). So Big Daddy Vegas and Scott go over a bunch of "Tips for Tops" about the kinds of things tops, especially less experienced tops, should plan for when playing with a new dude.

In our "Fantasy Life of Spanking" section, December is the perfect time to look at the role Santa Claus plays in spanking fantasies. He's practically a celebrity among spankos and we explore why that is.

Brian (a.k.a. SoupGoblin) is back! Only as a guest host, but it's still good to have him back on the podcast. And he's back because he recently took a trip to Los Angeles and was able to attend a Moonburn in person. So we figured it would be a great opportunity to record a sequel to last year's Moonburn-centered podcast (episode 3) and talk about a whole bunch of spanking experiences that happened, featuring Brian getting paddled a whole lot and Scott as both the bully and the victim in a fun (and vicious) bit of reversal.

We didn't have time for a fantasy life of spanking for this episode, but Scott does answer a listener question about Chi Delta Theta, a fantasy fraternity that existed back around 2000 as a precursor to online mechanisms for dudes into spanking to hook up. Scott was a member and has the paddle to prove it.

Scott has been asked repeatedly since starting the Dudes Spankin' Dudes podcast to discuss real world domestic discipline and Daddy/Boy fantasies. Unfortunately, these are areas in the spanking scene that Scott really doesn't participate in.

So our guest for this episode of the podcast is Jake of the blog "Cornertime Confidential." Jake is in a relationship that involves domestic discipline spankings for actual real world reasons, and he's also very much part of the Daddy/Boy relationship dynamic scene.

This podcast episode is all about the basics of both domestic discipline and Daddy/Boy roleplay. If you're interested in reading more, check out Jake's Cornertime Confidential blog:

www.cornertimeconfidential.blogspot.com

www.cornertimeconfidential.wordpress.com

Sidney's back for a second episode! The timing was good to bring him back to discuss going off to Camp Red Tails in July and a spanking fantasy he has in common with Scott that they've both made a reality.

Real Dudes Spankin' Real Dudes: Scott has never been to Camp Red Tails in Northern California, but Sidney has. Sidney describes the experience and also how he got spanked by a porn star! Which porn star? You'll have to listen to find out.

Details about Camp Red Tails here: https://manshandfilms.com/camp-red-tails/

The Fantasy Life of Spanking: Let's talk about whuppin's! That's Scott's term for heavy duty spanking sessions that don't have warm ups or a ramping up but are designed from the start to make a man cry. Scott and Sidney are both fond of the fantasy of the whuppin' (Scott as both a top and a bottom). They talk about the fantasy itself and what dudes should think about if they're thinking of making the fantasy real.

Another long episode! You know what that means: Stories involving actual real life dude-spanking-dude action! Including Scott's birthday spanking. It was a doozy. Scott is joined by Duke, who is new to the spanking scene, but has been involved in other types of BDSM play for years.

Real Dudes Spankin' Real Dudes: Spanking and the BDSM Scene. Scott talks to Duke about how an early bad experience pushed him away from spanking kink play, and how he's slowly worked his way back into the spanking scene. Scott helped! By beating Duke's ass. It was fun.

The Fantasy Life of Spanking: Begging for a Bullying. From the very first podcast episode, Scott was surprised to discover that a lot of dudes into spanking harbored fantasies involving bullies. Scott loves it as both a top and bottom. Duke loves it as a bottom. So the two of them talk about what the bully fantasy means and how (and whether) to translate it into real life play. And what that looks like with some stories of actual sessions.

Scott is back in Episode 8 with his buddy, Sid. Sid is a heavy-duty spanking bottom, and he and Scott share a spanking top in common, so this episode is focused all about being a bottom.

Real Dudes Spankin' Real Dudes: How to build up that butt! If you're new to spanking you may be disappointed to discover you can't take all the punishment you fantasize about. Sid and Scott talk about ways you physically and psychologically grow into being able to take harder and harder spankings.

The Fantasy Life of Spanking: You don't have to be a kid to be a brat! Sid and Scott discuss the fantasy of the "brat," the disobedient bottom who gets himself into trouble. Yes, the brat can be roleplay, but it's also a kind of mindset and it's actually very helpful in pushing real spanking scenes on and reinforcing the bottom's relationship to the top.

Also, we mention a couple of upcoming spanking camps!

Info on Camp Red Tails (July 13 to 18) can be found here: https://manshandfilms.com/camp-red-tails/

Info on Bad Ass Weekend (Oct. 19 to 22) can be found here: www.bawevent.com

It's been a while since our last podcast, but Scott is back. Brian is absent once again but we have Scott's friend Jaden instead. In episode 7 we have:

Real Dudes Spankin' Real Dudes: Jaden is launching a new spanking profile and connection site called Whappz. Check it out at www.whappz.com. He and Scott discuss what inspired him to attempt to start a new site for dudes into spanking to meet and his future plans (hopefully an app, hence the name). If you want to join the site, use referral code "dudes" when you make a profile.

Also, this link will take you directly to sign up and will autofill with the referral code: https://www.whappz.com/users/sign_up?referral_code=DUDES

The Fantasy Life of Spanking: Jaden and Scott both have very different approaches on the role of underwear in spanking fantasies and which underwear turns them on. We discuss our own preferences and where might find videos that highlight them in spanking scenes.

Plus we answer a couple more questions from listeners. Thanks for turning in!

Brian is back for the latest podcast, yay! In this episode, Scott and Brian discuss:

- Real Dudes Spankin' Real Dudes: Brian and Scott talk about making online profiles for hookup sites to indicate your interest in spanking, and debate the best ways to communicate your interests. The two big sites they're referring to are www.spankthishookups.com and recon.com.

- The Fantasy Life of Spanking: It's story time! Scott and Brian first met through a shared interest in spanking erotic fiction. We talk about malespank.net, a major home for stories about dudes spanking dudes and Brian's book publishing.

- Spankify Everything: This was supposed to be a wide-ranging discussion of spanking fantasies and superheroes, but Scott went on and on and on and on about Colossus of the X-Men, who was responsible back in the day for Scott's sexual (and spanko) awakening.

Brian has needed to take a step backward with the podcast, but he's not gone, we promise. Scott and Brian's buddy Jason joins the discussion for this podcast.

1. "Real Dudes Spankin' Real Dudes": What is it about a dude with a paddle anyway? Scott and Jason talk about the origins and masculine traits of one of the more popular punishment implements with dudes and things to think about when swinging them.

2. "The Fantasy Life of Spanking": This episode Scott goes on waaaaay toooo long about why individual spanking fantasies matter and how the "narratives" we make up for ourselves about spanking are important to making our kink or fetish part of a real-world satisfying sexual experience.

3. "Spankify Everything": Of course we would end up eventually talking about video game dudes. So many spankable butts in video games. So many!

Brian and Scott are back to the normal format for this latest podcast. We answer a few listener questions and then we've got:

1. "Real Dudes Spankin' Real Dudes." Is spanking part of your sexuality, or is it most of your sexuality? Scott and Brian talk about the spectrum of where spanking fits into various dudes' lives. Also, special quiz about what percentage of dudes fantasize about spankings. See if you can guess the numbers.

2. "The Fantasy Life of Spanking." Scott and Brian are huge fans of spanking artwork and cartoons. Brian goes over the better-known names in the spanking art world and talks about how the Internet allows spanking art to reach more people.

3. "Spankify Everything." Wrestling is a little bit spanky, but it can be a whole lot spankier. Yes, that's a word. Scott just made it up.