Dudes Spankin' Dudes

This episode Scott is joined by Bob Miller, one of the of the founders and the executive director of Cleveland Leather Annual Weekend (a.k.a. CLAW). Due to COVID wrecking schedules and planning, CLAW’s annual convention is happening this year in Los Angeles on Thanksgiving week. Better yet, it marks the kick-off of what they’re planning to be a new annual leather-kink-bdsm gathering every November here on the West Coast.

Scott will be attending, and has taken the initiative of putting together a spanking party for CLAW for Friday, Nov. 26. He talks with Bob (who is also into spanking) about why spanking fetishists should feel comfortable attending these events even if they’re not into leather gear or pup play or other kink activities. If this spanking party works out, Scott hopes to make it an annual event, so get your asses out here to L.A.

And don’t forget about Bad Ass Weekend coming up in October. And registration will be opening up on Sept. 18 for Hot Seat Retreat 2022 on March 17-20 in Palm Springs.

More info on CLAW here: Clawinfo.org.

More on Bad Ass Weekend: Bawevent.com

More on Hot Seat Retreat: Hotseatps.com

Scott is joined by Jaden and Doug to formally announce that Hot Seat Retreat is on track for 2022. The event will take place from March 17-20 at CCBC resort in Palm Springs, California.

Registration will formally open on Sept. 18. We go over all the basics to prep y'all on what to expect if you attend next year's hot spanking weekend. We hope to see you there!

Visit the website here: https://www.hotseatps.com/

Follow our Twitter feed at: https://twitter.com/HotSeatRetreat

Jaden, founder of Whappz and co-founder of Hot Seat Retreat, is back for another episode as we all prepare for Bad Ass Weekend (bawevent.com) in Georgia in October. And Scott announces plans for a spanking party at the Cleveland Leather Awareness Weekend (CLAW) event (clawinfo.org), which will actually be taking place in Los Angeles this November on Thanksgiving weekend. Stay tuned for more details. We’ll also be announcing registration for Hot Seat Retreat 2022 very soon.

In “Real Dudes Spanking Real Dudes,” Scott and Jaden tackle the problem of dudes that are not actually real on hookup sites and apps. There’s been a rise of scammers using our favorite fetish platforms to try to weasel private information and money out of you. We talk about tools that help you make sure your dudes are really real, and how to make sure dudes you try to talk to recognize you’re also a real dude and not a scammer.

In “The Fantasy Life of Spanking”: Wedgies! Wedgies have always been a fringe kink on the scene that has combined well with spanking. There’s been an increased interest in it in recent years. Scott the bully loves dishing out wedgies to his victims, and Jaden has even made it an interest tag on Whappz. We discuss.

Also, we answer a complicated question from a young kinky sub who wants to serve his spank-loving dom. The problem—the sub is not very experienced in spanking, hadn’t really been fantasizing about it, and is worried about the pain.

Music: Vivera / “I Don’t Give a Damn” (Instrumental Version) / courtesy of epidemicsound.com

Greetings dudes! Scott takes a step away from podcast episodes to record a special segment on spanking basics, inspired by seeing a bunch of fresh faces (and butts) coming into the scene post-COVID. This is intended to be a sort of “evergreen” podcast episode that can be searched for and shared with other dudes who are having fantasies about spanking and are wondering what to expect.

Music: Vivera / “I Don’t Give a Damn” (Instrumental Version) / courtesy of epidemicsound.com

Just a quick message to let y'all know that the L.A. Moonburn m/m spanking parties are officially back! The next party will be on Saturday, July 3, from noon-5 p.m., at the Threshold club in North Hollywood. (Their site is here: threshold.org)

Vaccinations are mandatory to attend. Scott will be celebrating his 50th birthday, so be sure to give him some licks!

J.R. (a.k.a. Bossman) returns to the podcast after giving Scott’s ass its first post-pandemic beating. We discuss what that was like and how to ease yourself back into pain play if you’ve taken, like we have, 14 months off from the scene.

In the “Real Dudes Spankin’ Real Dudes” segment, we talk about how rebooting your butt and your BDSM interest is an opportunity to perhaps experiment in other types of impact play and expanding your horizons. We discuss the ins and outs of flogging, punching, and face-slapping.

And we discuss the state of events and the spanking scene (Hope to see you all at Bad Ass Weekend) as the world slowly starts to reopen.

More on Bad Ass Weekend here: bawevent.com

More on San Francisco’s spanking party here: https://sanfranciscomensspankingparty.com/

More on CanSpanks here: https://canspanks.wixsite.com/canspanks/foxhaven

For episode 36, Dudes Spankin’ Dudes Co-creator Croup/Soup Goblin/Brian returns to chat with Scott about furry culture, what it’s like to be a furry, and about bringing the spanking fetish to the furry community.

In addition, Bad Ass Weekend is on schedule for October, and Scott reaches a birthday milestone and offers up his ass for punishment.

In Real Dudes Spankin’ Real Dudes, Croup talks about what furry culture is, how he developed an interest in it, his unicorn “fursona” Inarog, and how it all relates to spanking.

In the Fantasy Life of Spanking, furry fantasies are an excellent way to explore unusual or wild ideas about spankings. Scott explains how he made a “fursona” of his own, a hippo named Brody, to help explore his fantasies of heavy duty play and other forms of BDSM, and how he actually helped Scott branch out into new areas of kink!

More info on Bad Ass Weekend here at bawevent.com

Finally, the caning episode! With the assistance of British guest Harrison, we talk about the well-known, well-worn British love of caning this episode.

The Real Dudes Spankin’ Real Dudes section discusses caning techniques, things to do and not do, and what a caning feels like.

The Fantasy Life of Spanking section discusses the British schoolboy fantasy, some of the history of caning in schools, and most importantly, how to bring those fantasies to life.

Also, Scott memorializes another prominent members of the dudes spankin’s dudes community who passed away in December. And we take a question about what implements you can use if you can’t make a lot of sound.

If you want to reach out to Harrison or check out his spanking videos—

Twitter: https://twitter.com/hotspotharrison

Clip store: http://clips4sale.com/studio/160647

This is not a full podcast episode, but sadly, a short message informing everybody that Hot Seat Retreat for March 2021 has been cancelled. We're making initial plans to return to Palm Springs in March 2022 and some sort of virtual event to take its place. Listen for more details.

This episode begins with some sad news for our listeners. Frank, a.k.a. “Big Daddy Vegas,” who was the guest for episodes 13, 14, and 16, has passed away from Bulbar ALS, also known as Lou Gehrig’s Disease. Scott opens with some warm thoughts about a close friend.

Our guest for this episode is James AZ of Southspanking.com, and that’s what our “Real Dudes Spanking Real Dudes” segment is about. SouthSpanking is a great social media platform for dudes into spanking, and if you’re not already on there, you should check it out. If you’re missing all the hot spanking smut you used to see on Tumblr, SouthSpanking has you covered.

In the Fantasy Life of Spanking, James is in a domestic discipline marriage where he’s living out a very common fantasy—the weekly review discipline session. If you’ve ever fantasized about being in a relationship where you are on a regular discipline spanking schedule, James talks about what it’s like to live it out and what dudes should think about before they pursue it.

Check out SouthSpanking here: https://www.southspanking.com/groups/