You’ve found the perfect disciplinarian who knows exactly what to say to you to get you into that headspace where you can just want to say to him, “Yes, sir, I deserve a spanking,” and mean it. He knows what you need, how much you need it, and the right way to give it to you.

The problem? You live in Yonkers and he lives in Albuquerque. So how do you make it work if you can’t see each other face-to-face? Long-distance, directed discipline scenes have been a part of the spanking community for a long time. But how exactly do you pull them off so that it feels genuine for both sides? Listen on dudes, as HotbotScott is joined by Steven and Mike to talk you all through it.

(Note: This episode was recorded before the announcement that Skype would be shutting down its services.)

Links:

“Bad Lads, Strict Sirs and the World of Adult Male Spanking”: http://badladsandstrictsirs.com/

The Chicago Leather Archives and Museum: https://leatherarchives.org

Music: Vivera / “I Don’t Give a Damn” (Instrumental Version) / courtesy of epidemicsound.com