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Episode 42 - Relationships Made Easy, Even When They Aren't - Dr. Abby Medcalf


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Kevin Davis interviews Dr. Abby Medcalf, a relationship expert, in a conversation covering personal growth, parenting, and the significance of boundaries. They discuss the impact on children, healthy relationships, and effective communication. Topics include delayed gratification, thick and thin boundaries, commitment, sexual desire, setting intentions, and fostering connection. Abby introduces her Love Letter Newsletter for relationship inspiration.

Takeaways

  • Maintaining connection and intimacy in relationships requires intentional effort.
  • Creating a set change, both mentally and physically, can enhance relationships.
  • Engaging in podcast interviews can improve listening skills.
  • There are various resources and support available for personal growth and relationship improvement.
  • Abby's Love Letter Newsletter provides inspiration and guidance for building better relationships.

Chapters

00:00  Introduction and Getting to Know Each Other

02:00 Dr. Abby Medcalf's Background and Expertise

04:28 The Impact of Personal Growth on Relationships

08:51 The Influence of Entitlement and Boundaries on Relationships

09:49 Generational Differences in Parenting

18:23 The Importance of Delaying Gratification for Children

25:46 The Role of Boundaries in Parenting

34:26 The Impact of Boundaries on Relationships

37:09 The Importance of Asking Questions and Setting Boundaries in Relationships

38:16 Setting Boundaries and Effective Communication

46:13 Balancing Thick and Thin Boundaries

51:44 Being Steady and Committed in Relationships

57:06 Navigating Differences in Sexual Desire

01:03:07 Setting Intention and Micro Connections

01:08:00 Returning to Self and Shifting Energy

01:14:02 Maintaining Connection and Intimacy

01:14:59 Creating a Set Change in Relationships

01:15:38 Becoming a Better Listener

01:16:20 Finding Resources and Support

01:17:44 The Love Letter Newsletter


About Dr. Abby:

Dr. Abby Medcalf, renowned relationship expert, bestselling author, TEDx speaker, and podcast host, brings over 35 years of experience blending business and counseling expertise. A sought-after speaker at top organizations like Google and Apple, she's been featured on CBS and ABC News, contributing to publications like the NY Times and Psychology Today. With a direct, no-nonsense style and a touch of humor, Abby engages audiences on topics such as effective communication, mindset shifts, and creating satisfaction in relationships. A proud New Yorker turned Bay Area resident, Abby is a clean and sober mom, partner, and Mets fan who lives by the principles she advocates.

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