In this weeks episode, I’m teaching my ladies all about the lost art of FLIRTING! It’s really sad to me that so many women don’t even know HOW to flirt. In this microwave society that we have, people expect to meet and move in and marry before the month is out and good, healthy relationships just don’t happen that way! The art of flirting is all about what you DON’T say or do. It’s allowing for the slow burn. Don’t rush in just yet! Call the man to you with your eyes and use your body language to signal to him that you’re interested.

Some of the tips I give women are straight out of the twenties, but they WORK! A healthy masculine man doesn’t want a woman chasing him. He is a hunter by nature and knows what he wants. And trust me when I tell you this; he will get it! I have heard it all! My clients will say “Oh, he’s really shy. I have to make the first move or he won’t.” Or they say “Well, I have worked with him for MONTHS and he hasn’t approached me yet. Maybe he hasn’t noticed me. I’ll just break the ice.” Ladies, STOP IT! Now if you have been following me for a while you already know there are a million and one reasons why he hasn’t approached you yet! And NONE of them have anything to do with YOU!

Your value and worth are not tied up in whether this ONE guy wants you or approaches you. If he hasn’t approached and months have gone by, then MOVE ON! There are many, many other men out there who do want what you’re selling. Give them your time and attention.