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Episode 43: Permission and Safety
In this episode, join Marty and Bill as they navigate the complexities of conflict resolution using Internal Family Systems (IFS). In this episode, Bill introduces a vital protocol he's developing to enhance IFS effectiveness in coaching and personal relationships. From handling internal conflicts to mediating external disputes, Bill and Marty explore the nuances of compassionate accountability, informed consent, and creating a safe space for open dialogue.
Chapters:
00:00 Introduction to Tense Conversations
01:09 Welcome to the True You Podcast
01:43 The Importance of Protocol in IFS
03:33 Case Study: Mediating Marital Conflict
05:37 Understanding Internal Conflict
08:40 Case Study: Financial Dispute Mediation
13:21 Developing a Mediation Protocol
25:50 Navigating Uncertainty in Agreements
27:50 The Role of Accountability in Relationships
29:42 Compassionate Accountability and Personal Growth
30:31 The Power of Structured Conversations
32:16 The Importance of Staying Connected
36:47 Handling Defensiveness in Conflict
43:58 Innovative Communication Tools
50:11 Concluding Thoughts and Future Directions
Links and Resources:
• True You Podcast Facebook Page - https://www.facebook.com/trueyoupodcast
• If you would like to be a guest on the True You podcast, please complete this guest application: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSdbHITeLbAD98TRhFPZzK2kStuHos5HFjOGBWAaTJjgVcEAGA/viewform
• Internal Family Systems - https://ifs-institute.com/
• Compassionate Results Coaching - https://www.compassionateresultscoaching.com/
• Bill’s book, ‘Compassionate Results Guidebook’ - https://compassionateresultsguidebook.com
• ‘Listening is the Key', Dr. Kettelhut’s website - https://www.listeningisthekey.com/
• Marty’s new book, ‘Leadership as Relation’ - https://amzn.to/3KKkCZO
• Marty’s earlier book, ‘Listen… Till You Disappear’ - https://amzn.to/3XmoiZd
• Parts Work Practice - Free IFS Practice Group Sessions - https://www.partsworkpractice.com
• Contact Marty - [email protected]
• Contact Bill - [email protected]
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By Bill Tierney and Martin KettelhutIn this episode, join Marty and Bill as they navigate the complexities of conflict resolution using Internal Family Systems (IFS). In this episode, Bill introduces a vital protocol he's developing to enhance IFS effectiveness in coaching and personal relationships. From handling internal conflicts to mediating external disputes, Bill and Marty explore the nuances of compassionate accountability, informed consent, and creating a safe space for open dialogue.
Chapters:
00:00 Introduction to Tense Conversations
01:09 Welcome to the True You Podcast
01:43 The Importance of Protocol in IFS
03:33 Case Study: Mediating Marital Conflict
05:37 Understanding Internal Conflict
08:40 Case Study: Financial Dispute Mediation
13:21 Developing a Mediation Protocol
25:50 Navigating Uncertainty in Agreements
27:50 The Role of Accountability in Relationships
29:42 Compassionate Accountability and Personal Growth
30:31 The Power of Structured Conversations
32:16 The Importance of Staying Connected
36:47 Handling Defensiveness in Conflict
43:58 Innovative Communication Tools
50:11 Concluding Thoughts and Future Directions
Links and Resources:
• True You Podcast Facebook Page - https://www.facebook.com/trueyoupodcast
• If you would like to be a guest on the True You podcast, please complete this guest application: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSdbHITeLbAD98TRhFPZzK2kStuHos5HFjOGBWAaTJjgVcEAGA/viewform
• Internal Family Systems - https://ifs-institute.com/
• Compassionate Results Coaching - https://www.compassionateresultscoaching.com/
• Bill’s book, ‘Compassionate Results Guidebook’ - https://compassionateresultsguidebook.com
• ‘Listening is the Key', Dr. Kettelhut’s website - https://www.listeningisthekey.com/
• Marty’s new book, ‘Leadership as Relation’ - https://amzn.to/3KKkCZO
• Marty’s earlier book, ‘Listen… Till You Disappear’ - https://amzn.to/3XmoiZd
• Parts Work Practice - Free IFS Practice Group Sessions - https://www.partsworkpractice.com
• Contact Marty - [email protected]
• Contact Bill - [email protected]