In this week’s episode, we are talking about the five qualities that most women DON’T want in a man! When I talk to my healthy “feminine energy” women about this, they all agreed that these qualities are a huge turn-off to them. When I’m working with a woman for the first time in dating or relationship coaching, I make her write down all of the things she DOES NOT want in a relationship and in a romantic partner. This is her “list” moving forward so that when she sees these qualities early on, she knows to run away! Time is one of the biggest things we waste when dating.

We were taught as young girls to create this list of things we want our man to have and what our perfect relationship would be like; so we spend a lot of TIME looking for these qualities in the men we are dating. After a few days, weeks or months of doing this, we fall into our “feelings” about him and by then it’s too late! We have engaged this man over and over again (and possibly slept with him!) and THEN the “don’t wants” show up! Ladies, be wise and look for what you don’t want first. It will save you a lot of time in the beginning!

I recommend the book “Four Things Women Want From A Man” by A.R. Bernard. This is an excellent read for any man out there who wants to develop the qualities and attributes that will make you magnetic to women. For my ladies, it will dive deep into each one of these qualities and tell you why they are so important to look for in a good, healthy masculine man.

Four Things Women Want from a Man by A.R. Bernard