We’re back in person, feet on the earth, dropping into what it really means to live with internal freedom instead of waiting for money, location or circumstances to set you free. We unpack social media addiction, the “pendulum” of chasing vs avoiding, boredom and dopamine, parenting and self-parenting, love languages, embodiment and shadow work, and why the way you do things, speak to yourself and show up online matters more than any perfect routine.

This one’s raw, practical, and centred on real freedom, not another mindset formula or performance hack.
We explore topics like:

• Stepping out of the social media dopamine loop without running from life

• The “pendulum” effect, and why resisting or chasing both feed the same energy

• Internal vs external freedom, and why moving suburbs or earning more rarely fixes the core issue

• Stillness, boredom and intuition, and how distraction drowns out your inner voice

• Presence, patience and nervous system tone, from cold water to hospital births and fatherhood

• How you do things vs what you do, and why pace, posture and intention change your biology

• Self-parenting, love languages, and learning to treat yourself like someone you actually care about

• Masking, people-pleasing and showing up online in your real voice instead of a curated persona

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🎧 Chapters

• 00:00 – Dropping in, being in person, presence before content
  01:20 – The obsession with outcomes vs living in the moment
  04:30 – Social media addiction, comparison and likes as currency
  09:40 – The “pendulum” of chasing vs avoiding, good vs bad thinking
  14:50 – Neutrality and non-attachment as real power
  19:30 – Stillness, boredom and the discomfort people can’t sit with
  24:10 – Internal freedom vs external freedom, why changing location doesn’t change the mind
  28:40 – Presence in chaos, hospitals, fatherhood, and real-life stress tests
  33:20 – Posture, horizon gaze, body position and nervous system signalling
  38:00 – The difference between what you do and how you do it
  42:20 – Slowing down your pace to recalibrate the system
  46:50 – Self-parenting, inner child awareness and love languages
  51:10 – People-pleasing, masking, and dropping performance
  55:30 – Intuition vs ego, and acting before proof appears
  59:40 – Embodiment, shadow, and bringing all parts of you along
  1:03:20 – Integration, honesty, and what real growth actually looks like
  1:05:10 – Wrap-up, reflection, gratitude