People want to blame and not be held accountable when they get themselves into unhealthy and toxic relationships. If you get into a relationship and do not adhere to the signs and red flags you will suffer the consequences of the choices you made. When people find themselves in toxic relationships they find comfort in hearing people say "it's not your fault." Well, they're lying to you, because it is. You chose it, you allowed it, and therefore it is you who is accountable and responsible for the choices you made. If you were forced into the relationship or you weren't in your right mind, that's a different story, but that's not the type of relationships I'm referencing. I'm talking about those people getting into relationships of free will. Lying to you will not help you at all! You may not have asked for it but if you allow it to happen you signed off on it.

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