Sometimes is nice just to fly by the seat of your pants. This is something I've done pretty much my whole life, resulting in a brain that quickly constructs whatever bull crap is necessary to help me survive. What I find most interesting about spontaneous or surprise conversation is how often it ends up hitting the mark exactly -- far moreso than conversation that is pre-planned.In today's podcast, we walked in totally unaware of what we would talk about. Then, a simple question about the discomfort Dave seems to have with the questioning Eric and I do blossomed into a very full discussion over the next 45 mins. We end up digging into an important question: what produces the best results, the law or love?I don't know if you have these kind of conversations with your friends, but take note: there's something wonderful about honesty regarding how you feel -- even with your friends. And, there's something magical that can happen when instead of getting defensive, you consider the new information and work through it toward an honest end.I think we solved a little bit today, but not everything. Which is fine.Slow and steady wins the race. And, because we don't solve it all at once, we'll get to connect more as friends as we continue wrestling with how we become more Christ-like.