The golden child may be the favorite in the family where they are treated as royalty like they can never do no wrong they are easily to be influenced into doing something that they wouldn’t normally do until they realizes later on they were just being used by their manipulation games where they become the target where both these women my mother and my grandmother do not take ownership or responsibility for their actions of hurting others they didn’t care who they hurt it was all about their wellbeing’s and their needs matters more to them than family to them.