The reason why my own grandmother doesn’t know the true meaning of boundaries because she never set boundaries with her own daughter and they had a lot of term boiling over the years from the beginning since I was brought into this world that where they became rivals the day I was born that where it all happen she tried to make it seem like it was their first time falling out or they wasn’t in a good space as of right now no wrong ! It started back way back before I started going to middle school and high school it was around those times when I was a teenager.