Too many people blame self when they're cheated on, but truth is although many cheaters will have 101 excuses, you're not to blame. A cheater will cheat, because that's who they are and what they've become comfortable with. It's a problem within the individual. If you're an insecure person you may be manipulated into thinking it's your fault. It's NOT!! Cheaters are individuals with their own issues that haven't been resolved. They go through life causing pain to those who allow it. Cheaters need to work on self in order to become better. No matter how much you love them, you can't change them, but you surely can lose yourself trying.

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