Many say, what is my plan and purpose in this life. 
Jeremiah 29

 11 For I know the plans and thoughts that I have for you,’ says the Lord, ‘plans for peace and well-being and not for disaster, to give you a future and a hope. 
He wants the best for us.He is perfecting in us that which he started in us.

Don’t ever measure yourself to someone else. Don’t be hard on yourself if you feel you should be further along than you are, but don’t criticize someone who is into something you are not into just because it doesn’t fit into your box. Just maybe, they are blazing a trail for you.
If you have any fear of stepping out of your comfort zone, please listen carefully. The Lord is bidding you to come up here. Come into a deeper relationship with him. It may seem a little strange at first, but the longer you wait upon the Lord, the greater the rewards. He is a rewarder of them that diligently seek him. The word wait in the Greek is entanglement. It is a oneness.