In this week’s episode, I’m talking to you about the most DANGEROUS males that a woman can come across. I use the term “male” because I have a whole different definition of what a real MAN is! These males should be avoided at all costs as they mean you no good. They will waste your valuable time and will do nothing but distract you from having the life and relationship that you really want. They will always put THEIR needs and wants first and are not healthy, emotionally safe, masculine men. You may recognize some of them. You may have even dated or been in a relationship with one of them. Life is about learning and growing, so hopefully, you figured out early on that these types of males just don’t make good boyfriends or husbands and move on to something bigger and better!

If you have ever dealt with any of these males, this episode does not serve to make you feel ashamed, regretful or resentful. There is no judgment here; we’ve all fell for the charismatic, smooth-talking guy who gave us butterflies. This simply serves as a gentle reminder to NEVER get caught up with these types of men again! See the signs early on and just know that no matter what you do or say, you will not wave a magic wand and change him nor should you attempt to save him! Remember, he must do that himself, without your assistance or input (heck, or maybe even your presence!)

Remember my beautiful, charming feminine queen, you always put yourself FIRST and you focus on the type of relationship you want to have and then assess the man to see if he can give that to you! Your wants and needs are just as important as anyone else’s. You deserve to be happy and loved and fulfilled, so make that your number one priority! Love yourself first, and then decide who you will share that love with. Qualify the man to be sure that he is deserving of that love because he can’t get it like this from anyone else. There is only ONE adorable you!