Despite the important role it plays in relationships, understanding does not have to be imperative in all interactions. Sometimes our need for understanding is connecting and helps move our relationships into more safety and security. Other times, a need to be understood is an example of our inability to hold boundaries. Occasionally our inability to understand is because we aren't doing the work of gathering information. Listen to this week's podcast to see why we really can't understand each other, and what your role is as a person in relationships.