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Episode 6: Embracing solo dates

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I'm back! In this episode, I cover the topic of solo dates and how EMPOWERING it is to be able to do them. I'm passionate about solo dates and I just want more people to embrace them too because urgh, it's so good. Enjoy!


PS: Below is the summary by ChatGPT that I was super impressed about lol.


Podcast Talk Track: Solo Dates

Introduction:

  • Introduce the topic of solo dates and why they can be empowering and enjoyable.
  • Mention the benefits of dining alone, such as the freedom to choose where and when to go.

    • Section 1: Preparing Mentally for the Solo Date

    • Get excited about the solo date and plan where to go.
    • Study the venue and menu to get a feel for the vibe.
    • Use Yelp and Instagram to learn more about the place.
    • Choose the drink and dessert you'll have and get excited about the experience.

      • Section 2: Timing Your Solo Date

      • Decide on the timing of your solo date, either on the same day or planning a week in advance.
      • Taking advantage of being a single diner by going to places with open seating or walk-in options.

        • Section 3: Arriving and Getting Seated

        • When you arrive, ask for a "seat for one" and specify whether you prefer the bar or a table.
        • Checking in with the front door person can be helpful in busy establishments.
        • Overcoming nervousness about dining out alone by realizing that many others do the same.

          • Section 4: How to Spend Time During the Solo Date

          • Utilize your phone for various activities like responding to messages, checking emails, or writing notes.
          • Consider engaging in conversation with the bar person or other patrons if you're open to it.
          • Be approachable and open to chatting with others by not wearing AirPods.

            • Section 5: Overcoming Challenges and Embracing Solo Dates

            • Address common concerns like feeling weird or strange while dining alone.
            • Encourage the audience to embrace solo dates as a way to enjoy life and feel accomplished.
            • Remind them that they don't need to wait for someone else to take them out; they can do it themselves.

              • Section 6: Affordability and Budget-Friendly Options

              • Assure listeners that solo dates don't have to be expensive.
              • Mention that even ordering just one drink or a small item can be a valid reason to be at a bar or restaurant alone.

                • Section 7: Dealing with the Fear of Being Judged

                • Address concerns about being seen alone by someone they know.
                • Encourage a positive mindset and remind listeners that solo dining is not something to be ashamed of.
                • Share examples of friends who were inspired by the idea and have tried solo dates themselves.

                  • Conclusion:

                  • Recap the key points about solo dates and their benefits.
                  • Encourage the audience to try going out alone and enjoy the experience.
                  • Sign off with a positive message, empowering listeners to take charge of their social lives and embrace solo adventures.
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                    SeekingXOBy Mashley Addison