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There are a lot of unofficial holidays out there. Some are harmless. Some are funny. And then there’s Steak and BJ Day.

Is it playful? Is it sexist? Is it just a joke? Or does it quietly reinforce one-sided expectations about sex and pleasure?

In this episode, we unpack where this “holiday” came from, why it makes some people uncomfortable, and what it reveals about communication, consent, fantasy vs reality, and performative intimacy.

Because desire doesn’t magically switch on when the calendar says so.

And pleasure works best when it’s chosen, not expected.

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