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Are the 5 Love Languages actually legit… or have we all just been treating them like relationship gospel?

In this episode, we dig into physical touch vs sex, acts of service vs mental load, how our needs change over time, and what the research actually says about the Love Languages theory.

Maybe your “love language” isn’t who you are forever. Maybe it’s just what you’re missing right now.

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Sex scandals grab headlines, but are we actually scandalized by the sex?

From Bill Clinton and Monica Lewinsky to Charles, Diana and Camilla, we're looking back at famous scandals that changed public opinion, celebrity culture and the way we talk about power.

And somehow, the woman still seems to get dragged harder. 👀

We also play a little game: would some of history's biggest scandals even be considered scandalous today?

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In this episode, we’re building the ultimate F*ck It List and talking about the fantasies we think about, the things we’d actually try, and the ones that are probably better left in our imagination.

We get into sharing fantasies with a partner, threesomes, kink events, sex toys, erotic fiction, trying something new after years together, and why your list doesn’t have to be wild to matter. Sometimes the biggest fantasy is simply feeling confident enough to ask for what you want.

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The clitoris is a whole lot more than one tiny button, and Vicki thinks she’s been seriously underutilized.

In this Not Safe for Brunch Quickie, Vicki shares 5 clit tips everyone should know, including why direct stimulation isn’t always better, why you need to STOP changing the rhythm when something is working, and why lube deserves way more respect.

Whether you have a clitoris or you’re lucky enough to play with one, consider this your quick reminder that better pleasure isn’t about memorizing one magic technique. It’s about paying attention, communicating and figuring out what actually feels good.

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Your sex life has a check engine light too. The problem? A lot of us ignore it.

Pain during sex, sudden changes in libido, trouble orgasming, vaginal dryness, erectile difficulties, avoiding intimacy, putting off STI testing... we convince ourselves it’s probably nothing, part of getting older, or something we just have to live with.

In honour of World Sexual Health Day on September 4th, we’re talking about the sexual health warning signs people tend to brush off, why “common” doesn’t necessarily mean “normal,” how stress and mental health can show up in the bedroom, and why preventative sexual healthcare deserves just as much attention as the rest of your health.

And yes, we also discuss doctor Googling, STI testing, pelvic floors, menopause, communication and why some of us need several people to tell us to call the damn doctor before we actually do it.

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What actually counts as cheating anymore?

Deleting messages? Paying for OnlyFans? Keeping a dating app? Having coffee with an ex? Liking someone's sexy selfies? Or fantasizing about somebody else during sex?

In this episode of Taboo Talk: Not Safe for Brunch, we're throwing out real-life relationship scenarios and deciding whether they're cheating, disrespectful, completely harmless... or a giant red flag waiting to happen.

Because the biggest problem might not be cheating itself. It might be assuming your partner is playing by the same rules you are.

Tell us in the comments: What's something YOU consider cheating that your partner might not?

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If a man walks down the street without a shirt, nobody bats an eye. If a woman does it? Suddenly everyone has an opinion.

In this episode, we’re talking about women going topless, the legal battle that helped change things in Canada, Go Topless Day, breastfeeding, body image, safety, cameras, nude beaches and the massive double standard around women’s breasts. Because having the right to take your top off and actually feeling comfortable enough to do it are two VERY different things.

And we have questions: Would you go topless if nobody judged you? Would men still support topless equality if it meant all boobs, not just the ones they wanted to see? 😏

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HIV isn’t just a health issue from the past. In this episode of Taboo Talk: Not Safe for Brunch, Vicki, Amber and Coralie discuss rising HIV diagnoses in Manitoba, common misconceptions about who is at risk, STI testing, condom use, dating, stigma and why open sexual-health conversations still matter.

They also look at how HIV treatment has changed, including U=U — Undetectable = Untransmittable — and why getting tested is about information, not judgment.

For Canadian HIV information and resources, visit CATIE.ca or the Public Health Agency of Canada.

This episode is for general education and awareness and is not a substitute for medical advice.

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Low libido isn't just one person's problem. It affects both partners, and the conversation often turns into blame instead of understanding.

In this NSFB Quicky, Amber shares seven practical ways couples can reconnect, reduce pressure, and better understand what's really behind a changing sex drive. From stress and sleep to responsive desire, flirting, and communication, these are simple changes that can make a big difference.

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Think better sex starts in the bedroom? Think again.

This week we're talking about six simple habits that help couples reconnect, rebuild intimacy, and bring the spark back into long-term relationships. From flirting during the day to reducing stress, date nights, affectionate touch, and actually talking about sex, these small changes can make a big difference.

Whether you've been together for two years or twenty, this episode is packed with practical ideas you can start using today.

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