One in three young men reported having no sex in the past year, and overall sexual activity has been declining for decades. But is this really about sex... or is it about stress, loneliness, dating fatigue, and a lack of connection?

In this episode, Amber, Coralie, and Vicki dive into the growing "sex recession," why people are having less sex, and what it says about modern relationships.

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Pegging is one of the most misunderstood topics in sexual wellness. 

In this episode, we're breaking down the myths, the stigma, how to bring it up with a partner, beginner tips, and why pegging has absolutely nothing to do with sexual orientation.

Whether you're curious, skeptical, or just here for the conversation, we're diving into it all without the shame.

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Welcome to the very first NSFB Quickie!

A few months ago we sent a chellenge out to our listens of having 200 orgasms this year. Now that the first quarter is over, Vicki is checking in and sharing an important reminder: pleasure isn't about keeping score. It's about making space for joy, connection, and feeling good in your own body.

How's your year going so far?

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Are sex toys replacing partners, or are they helping couples build stronger, more satisfying relationships?

In this episode of Not Safe For Brunch, we tackle one of the biggest myths about sex toys and intimacy. We discuss why some people feel threatened by toys, how they can actually improve communication and connection, and when they might be masking deeper relationship issues.

Whether you're curious about bringing toys into the bedroom, worried about how your partner might react, or simply wondering if toys help or hurt relationships, this conversation is for you.

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This week we’re diving headfirst into the world of the manosphere after watching Netflix’s Inside the Manosphere documentary with Louis Theroux and honestly… we have thoughts.

From Andrew Tate and red pill culture to incels, pickup artists, and algorithm-driven radicalization, we unpack how online spaces are targeting young boys with messaging disguised as “self-improvement.” We talk about why this content is so effective, how social media algorithms fuel it, and why so many women instantly recognize the rhetoric when they see it.

We also get real about what parents, partners, and even friends can do when someone they care about starts slipping into these toxic online spaces. This conversation isn’t about attacking men. It’s about recognizing manipulation, protecting young people, and creating healthier conversations around masculinity, relationships, and identity.

Because this isn’t just internet drama anymore. It’s shaping real relationships, real beliefs, and an entire generation in real time.

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Most of us figured out masturbation before we even understood our own bodies… and then never talked about it again.

In this episode of Taboo Talk: Not Safe For Brunch, we’re getting honest about masturbation, shame, midlife pleasure, body changes, stress relief, partner communication, and why so many women were never actually taught how to explore what feels good.

We talk about:
 ✨ Why masturbation still feels “taboo”
 ✨ The shame many women grew up with
 ✨ Why your body changes over time
 ✨ How self-pleasure can improve intimacy
 ✨ Stress relief, nervous system regulation, and orgasms
 ✨ Why communication with partners matters
 ✨ Why pleasure is NOT selfish

Plus… yes, we talk about the Womanizer 😆

👇 Tell us in the comments:
 What’s something nobody taught you about pleasure or your body?

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There’s a pill designed to help increase women’s sexual desire… and most people barely know it exists.

This week on Taboo Talk: Not Safe for Brunch, Amber, Coralie, and Vicki dive into the story behind Addyi, often called “the pink pill,” and why its journey looked nothing like Viagra’s.

We break down what HSDD actually is, how Addyi works differently from Viagra, the shocking approval process, and the double standards surrounding women’s sexual health. We also get real about antidepressants, libido loss, hormone therapy fear-mongering, and why women’s desire is still treated differently in medicine.

This episode is funny, frustrating, eye-opening, and honestly? A little rage-inducing in the best way.

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We’re tackling a topic that gets people heated online—but we’re leaving the comment section energy out of it.

In this episode, we break down what intersex actually means, why sex isn’t as simple as “male or female,” and how biology is way more complex than what most of us were taught growing up.

We’re keeping it real, science-based, and easy to understand—because this conversation doesn’t need more confusion… it needs clarity.

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What if most of what you learned about sex growing up was wrong?

In this episode of Taboo Talks: Not Safe For Brunch, Amber, Coralie, and Vicki unpack the biggest sex myths many of us were taught through school, movies, magazines, religion, locker room talk, and pure misinformation.

From the truth about “blue balls” to why painful sex is not something you should just accept, we’re breaking down outdated beliefs and replacing them with honest, empowering conversation.

We also talk about poor sex education, pleasure gaps, men’s libido myths, women’s orgasms, masturbation shame, and why learning about sex often starts way later in life than it should.

Because no... good sex is not supposed to be confusing, painful, or based on myths.

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What happens when your vibrator dies? Toss it in the garbage? Hide it in a drawer forever? Try to recycle it and hope nobody makes eye contact? 

For this Earth Day episode, we tackle a surprisingly frustrating question: how do you responsibly recycle sex toys? We dug into lithium batteries, e-waste programs, provincial differences across Canada, stigma, safety concerns, and why consumers are being asked to solve a problem manufacturers and systems haven’t caught up with yet. 

This episode is funny, honest, and way more important than it sounds. 

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