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Episode 66 - People Pleasing Series - Sorry Not Sorry

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Do you apologize for every little thing, even when you've done nothing wrong? Unwarranted apologies compromise your needs, especially your value need. Although most of this behavior is unconscious and stems from past traumas and conditioning, there are simple steps you can take to process, heal and start acknowledging to shift this pattern of behavior.

In this episode we cover...

  • How people (especially women and people from marginalized communities) are conditioned to apologize constantly
  • The ways that unwarranted apologies affects your needs
  • Why the phrase "sorry not sorry" is so problematic and harmful to you and your needs
  • Some of the issues with apologizing for owning your value
  • How society influences the perception of your value
  • How you can go against the social grain by owning your value
  • The impact of unwarranted apologies in relation to social justice and privilege
  • Why "sorry" is sometimes necessary to feel safe in certain situations
  • Why it is OK to prioritize your safety over your other needs
  • How to start to change this behavior and start better meeting your value need
  • How your value need shows up in the workplace
  • How your value need is connected to your personal power need
  • Why it's important acknowledge feelings around this topic in order to start healing from past conditioning

    • Episode references:

    The episode in which we mention the forest is Episode 36 - Self worth Series: Why it's so hard to feel 'enough'

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