Being Selfish is not a good thing and mostly in a bad way. And one of the very reason why people are selfish is because they believe its logical by putting yourself first when ever possible is a perfect way to ensure one's survival in this world. Please 🙏 that is not totally true. 2. By growing up in a toxic family Environment can make people selfish. please Never underestimate the ability of a very toxic Family and it's Environment how it could make someone a full basket case of selfishness for the rest of his or her life. 3. Because of Emotional frail and insecure do make a lot of people selfish. 4. By being terrified of abandonment from friends, family and loved ones. 5. By only wanting friends who are useful can make people selfish. 6 By being brainwashed by selfish Culture that it is okay to be heartless. 7 Bad relationship can make people to be selfish. please let us genuinely have a change of life three ways to be less Selfish is by 1. By trying another man's pairs of shoes. Meaning seen things from someone else perspective point of view or experience. 2 By finding Role model to lead you in the right way of kindness. 3. By identifying people needs a helping to help or fill them up. Finally now it time to make amends if you are out there living life to your self alone wake up call changed for good and the world will be a better place for all.