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You're doing well, making progress - and then a trigger hits and the pain floods back. You think: "I'm going backwards. I'm failing. I haven't healed at all."
But what if you're not sliding backwards - you're spiraling upward.
Julie dismantles the lie of linear healing and introduces the truth: healing is loopy, not a straight line. Think about the shape of a loop - it goes forward, curves back, then swoops up. Then backwards again, then swoops higher. From above it looks like you're retracing the same ground, but from the side you can see you're moving UPWARD.
When a trigger comes back, it's not evidence you haven't healed - it's evidence you're ready to heal at a deeper level. You're revisiting so you can process the next layer. The fact that it came back up means you're strong enough now to handle it.
Time Alone Doesn't Heal: You can be five years out and still stuck, still triggered, still suffering - if you haven't done the work. Or you can be in the divorce process or just a few months out and spiraling upward - because you're actively healing. The difference isn't time. It's the work.
When you do the work, the spiral moves upward. When you don't, you just spin in the same place.
Why the Sisterhood Accelerates Healing:
In community, things happen that don't happen in isolation:
LIKE WHAT YOU HEAR & WANT TO GO DEEPER?
🎯 REGISTER FOR THE FREE WEBINAR: Peace, Love & Money After Divorce: How to Get What You Want After Divorce & Empty Nest
Still lying awake at 2am replaying conversations with your ex? Terrified you'll be alone forever? Paralyzed by financial decisions even though you desperately want security?
You're not broken. You're stuck in your default story—and it's stealing your peace, blocking love, and keeping you financially frozen.
Join Julie for this free training where you'll discover:
This isn't about surviving your divorce. It's about creating everything you desire after it.
Click here to register for the free webinar now.
About Julie:
Julie Steed is a certified Life Coach, National Board Certified Health and Wellness Coach, and founder of the FIERCE Sisterhood - a transformative community for divorced empty nesters ready to rebuild their lives from the inside out.
As a divorced empty nester herse...
By Julie SteedYou're doing well, making progress - and then a trigger hits and the pain floods back. You think: "I'm going backwards. I'm failing. I haven't healed at all."
But what if you're not sliding backwards - you're spiraling upward.
Julie dismantles the lie of linear healing and introduces the truth: healing is loopy, not a straight line. Think about the shape of a loop - it goes forward, curves back, then swoops up. Then backwards again, then swoops higher. From above it looks like you're retracing the same ground, but from the side you can see you're moving UPWARD.
When a trigger comes back, it's not evidence you haven't healed - it's evidence you're ready to heal at a deeper level. You're revisiting so you can process the next layer. The fact that it came back up means you're strong enough now to handle it.
Time Alone Doesn't Heal: You can be five years out and still stuck, still triggered, still suffering - if you haven't done the work. Or you can be in the divorce process or just a few months out and spiraling upward - because you're actively healing. The difference isn't time. It's the work.
When you do the work, the spiral moves upward. When you don't, you just spin in the same place.
Why the Sisterhood Accelerates Healing:
In community, things happen that don't happen in isolation:
LIKE WHAT YOU HEAR & WANT TO GO DEEPER?
🎯 REGISTER FOR THE FREE WEBINAR: Peace, Love & Money After Divorce: How to Get What You Want After Divorce & Empty Nest
Still lying awake at 2am replaying conversations with your ex? Terrified you'll be alone forever? Paralyzed by financial decisions even though you desperately want security?
You're not broken. You're stuck in your default story—and it's stealing your peace, blocking love, and keeping you financially frozen.
Join Julie for this free training where you'll discover:
This isn't about surviving your divorce. It's about creating everything you desire after it.
Click here to register for the free webinar now.
About Julie:
Julie Steed is a certified Life Coach, National Board Certified Health and Wellness Coach, and founder of the FIERCE Sisterhood - a transformative community for divorced empty nesters ready to rebuild their lives from the inside out.
As a divorced empty nester herse...