In this episode Nicky shares a story where she has been working under stress and how this has impacted the way she listened to her team and also communicated with them.In this episode you will learn:How to become more self aware so you recognise what your behaviour is.What to do if you find yourself caught up in the moment.What to do next.<h1>Resources & support (UK)</h1> <ul> <li> Samaritans: 116 123 (free, 24/7)</li> <li> Shout: Text 85258 (free, 24/7)</li> <li> PAPYRUS HOPELINEUK (under 35s): 0800 068 4141</li> </ul> Explore more tools & training: 🌐 <a href='http://www.nickyperfect.com'>www.nickyperfect.com</a> 🌐<a href='https://www.thecommunicationcoach.co.uk/'> www.thecommunicationcoach.co.uk</a> 💬 Join our community: <a href='https://www.facebook.com/groups/1325768069360926/'>Courageous Conversations About Suicide</a> — a safe, supportive space to listen, share, and find connection.

In this episode Nicky shares a story where she has been working under stress and how this has impacted the way she listened to her team and also communicated with them.In this episode you will learn:How to become more self aware so you recognise what your behaviour is.What to do if you find yourself caught up in the moment.What to do next.Resources & support (UK) Samaritans: 116 123 (free, 24/7) Shout: Text 85258 (free, 24/7) PAPYRUS HOPELINEUK (under 35s): 0800 068 4141 Explore more tools & training: 🌐 www.nickyperfect.com 🌐 www.thecommunicationcoach.co.uk 💬 Join our community: Courageous Conversations About Suicide — a safe, supportive space to listen, share, and find connection.

In this episode Nicky shares a story where she has been working under stress and how this has impacted the way she listened to her team and also communicated with them.In this episode you will learn:How to become more self aware so you recognise what your behaviour is.What to do if you find yourself caught up in the moment.What to do next.Resources &amp; support (UK) <ul> <li> Samaritans: 116 123 (free, 24/7)</li> <li> Shout: Text 85258 (free, 24/7)</li> <li> PAPYRUS HOPELINEUK (under 35s): 0800 068 4141</li> </ul> Explore more tools &amp; training: 🌐 <a href="http://www.nickyperfect.com" rel="noopener noreferrer">www.nickyperfect.com</a> 🌐<a href="https://www.thecommunicationcoach.co.uk/" rel="noopener noreferrer"> www.thecommunicationcoach.co.uk</a> 💬 Join our community: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/1325768069360926/" rel="noopener noreferrer">Courageous Conversations About Suicide</a> — a safe, supportive space to listen, share, and find connection.

Episode 68 - How being in a crisis changes how we listen

For over a decade, Nicky Perfect BEM served as a Hostage and Crisis Negotiator, working with people and families in moments of extreme crisis. She went on to become Course Director for the UK’s National Negotiation Course and has trained negotiators and leaders across the world. Alongside her operational career, Nicky has studied psychology, relationships, human behaviour, personal development, and coaching. In this podcast, she brings those experiences together to show how the principles of hostage and crisis negotiation can transform everyday communication. Because communication is at the heart of everything we do — in families, at work, in leadership, and in the toughest conversations we face. When relationships break down, it’s usually because communication has broken down first. Each episode offers real stories, practical strategies, and powerful insights to help you: <ul><li>🎧 Listen in a way that makes people feel heard</li><li>💬 Navigate conflict with calm and confidence</li><li>🌱 Build stronger, healthier relationships at home and at work</li></ul> Learn the skills that save lives — and discover how they can change yours.

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For over a decade, Nicky Perfect BEM served as a Hostage and Crisis Negotiator, working with people and families in moments of extreme crisis. She went on to become Course Director for the UK’s National Negotiation Course and has trained negotiators and leaders across the world. Alongside her operational career, Nicky has studied psychology, relationships, human behaviour, personal development, and coaching. In this podcast, she brings those experiences together to show how the principles of hostage and crisis negotiation can transform everyday communication. Because communication is at the heart of everything we do — in families, at work, in leadership, and in the toughest conversations we face. When relationships break down, it’s usually because communication has broken down first. Each episode offers real stories, practical strategies, and powerful insights to help you: 🎧 Listen in a way that makes people feel heard💬 Navigate conflict with calm and confidence🌱 Build stronger, healthier relationships at home and at work Learn the skills that save lives — and discover how they can change yours.

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