Many people have it all wrong by thinking if they hate someone or if they won't forgive someone that it hurts the other person or people, but it's not true! It doesn't matter if you cause them problems it is you who will suffer the most! You inhibit and stunt your growth causing dysfunction in your own life! Many people never truly enjoy life because of thier dark hearts and minds. Unhappy people are full of insecurities and because of their unresolved inner issues they will project their issues into the lives of others. That behavior doesn't allow for change in your life, and there's no benefit to holding on to negativity, and never letting go of past hurt! It is you who give power to memories to form into negative thoughts and feelings. Get rid of the crutch that's keeping you crippled! It's self-sabotage and self-inflicted pain you bring upon yourself!

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