Facing financial abuse as being the golden child it really came with the price it was never about the relationship where it’s two people connecting to each other where they build that bond with one another to have that foundation it was never about that with my narcissistic grandmother it was based on money everything was money when it came to her she was very self centered like the world involved around here she made the situation to be about her all the time it was always me me me me it was never about anybody els that was important to her. She a pathological liar she was not always honest when situations take a dark turn she never take accountability for what she did wrong for example she will apologize than she will backtrack on her apology by taking it back so that not coming from a genuine place when a person do that.