During the dating and the courtship process, there’s a lot of buzz going on. Date nights, Gifts, Words of affirmation, romantic gestures, unsolicited kindness and the works are all normal occurrences that keep the tempo of a relationship up and keeps a couple feeling connected. 

What then happens when people get married? Where does the fire go? Do we ditch all our romantic gestures and expecting ‘happily ever after’’ to just happen?