That is abusive behavior, which has nothing at all to do with love. It's brokenness! When people are that way they're broken, immature, and lack things necessary for them to see clearly. They're of unhealed hearts and minds!  When people get with abusive people they are individuals who are lacking something and seeking something. You're always treated how you've allowed. Don't ignore the signs, red flags, or your own intuition.

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