In this week’s episode, I am discussing if a cheater can reform their cheating ways, once and for all! I get this question a lot from my female clients (and a few of the guys!) and they want to know if their guy who has cheated on them will do it again. Well, as I always say; life and love take RISK! There are no guarantees. I also believe the chances we take in both are worth it.

There are some things you should be on the lookout for to have a better chance of predicting what the outcome may be. I will give you some signs that he MAY cheat again. And for all of you ladies who are single and dating, I’m going to give you some ways to find out if this has been a problem before in your suitor’s previous relationships.

Since I am such a nerd, I wanted to give you some information on the General Social Survey that is conducted out of the University of Chicago. Since 1972, the General Social Survey (GSS) has been monitoring societal change and studying the growing complexity of American society. GSS questions include such items as national spending priorities, marijuana use, crime and punishment, race relations, quality of life, and confidence in institutions. Since 1988, the GSS has also collected data on sexual behavior including number of sexual partners, frequency of intercourse, extramarital relationships, and sex with prostitutes.

Check out more about it here.

Here is a great article at The Huffington Post about this same topic and the answers that marriage counselors gave!