In this week’s bonus episode, I am discussing the downfalls of “monkey branching”. This is when you go from one relationship directly into another one. So many people (men and women) do this to avoid dealing with the pain and disappointment of their failed relationship. This is NEVER a good idea as it will cause hurt and heartache to the new person they decide to deal with and it will keep the person “monkey branching” stuck in a negative pattern and not growing and learning from their relationships.

In my podcast episode number 54 “Ladies, Beware The Newly Single Man”, I talk about what dating a man who has just come out of a marriage or a relationship is like and that you must be cautious with engaging with this man for fear of being “monkey branched” on to! He may be reaching for you to ease his pain or hurts from the previous relationship OR he could just be using you as the rebound relationship.

Either way, you stand a pretty good chance of getting hurt and that is what I want you to avoid if you can help it! Love is not a game. When people’s hearts are at stake, you run the risk of them getting attached and if you are not that serious, then avoid roping others in too soon. We are all energy out here in the universe, so be mindful of what kind of energy you are putting out if you don’t want that same kind of energy coming back at you times 100!