Typically it's not men who are in search for relationships. That usually falls with the woman. We just want to "Hit it and quit it" "Pump and Dump" and on to next one. It is in man's nature to be polygamous, hence why so many men cheat. Societal norms is what tries to domesticate and reengineer our natural instinct. That tells us to go out into the world and multiply. Relationships slowdown the process of a man chasing his purpose because he needs to divide his energy, time, and resource to woman who is most likely just  having  a pit stop in the mans life.