In this episode, Claire and Michelle talk about some destructive behaviors that commonly show up in communication and conflict that can be understood through underlying motivation or fear, and related to the bigger picture of personality types or even personality disorders. The emphasis is that, regardless of whether it is just a person behaving a certain way, a person with a particular type of personality, or a person with an actual personality disorder diagnosis (or all the determinant criteria for), all we have to work with, personally and legally, is the behavior.