It's so easy for us to be negative and always think about the things that we don't want.  Of course we do not want somebody that is going to lie to us or cheat on us, but why do we feel the need to announce that to the world on our dating profiles?  This negative first approach often leads to low responses and the seeds of resentment ride off of the bat.

Instead, I think it's better for us to have a future focus.  We cannot simply live out of our past and expect to correct all of the failures from our previous relationships.  Getting healthy first and focusing on the future is the best way to go and that's exactly what I talk about on tonight's podcast episode!  I would encourage you to tune in and let me know if you think that living in the past is better than having a future focus.