Dating After Divorce

The world needs you to be you.  Everyone else is taken, so do everything that you can to be your genuine self.  This is absolutely vital when dating.  I know there are people out there presenting a false appearance and they will always pay the price.  It is always better to be yourself, especially if you are attempting to be in a serious relationship with another person.

Presenting a fake appearance is not only exhausting, it is also very dangerous.  When you lie about yourself and then meet someone new, the truth is often revealed very quickly which damages your ability to have a serious relationship.  If you lie about your height, what else are you lying about?  Can you even be trusted?

In this episode of the podcast we talk about the value of integrity.  You will see that running an honest approach will always give you the best results.  There is someone out there that is perfect for you just as you are.  If you continue to lie to the world you will never know them and they will never know you.  To me, that is an avoidable tragedy.

In this episode we talk about the 30 signs that she is wanting you to ask her out, so the gentleman it's time to man up and get after it.  Flirting is a very confusing science but I think with this particular episode you will be better equipped to interpret the signals that you're getting so that you can make a move when it's appropriate.  I cannot guarantee 100% success, but I can certainly promise that you will increase your odds of successful operation when you pay attention to the signs that she's giving you.

Don't worry ladies, this episode is for you also.  Let us know if the signs we list here are the right signs.  And if they're not the right kind of signs let us know!  You never know, your assistance could be the tipping point for that guy you like the even ask you out!

Although it's really fun to be in a great relationship, not everything is going to work out the way we want it to.  There will be times when a difficult decision needs to be made regarding your relationship.  It is not acceptable to stay in an abusive relationship, and it may also not be acceptable to stay in a relationship that is not fulfilling and healthy.

In this episode of the podcast I discuss several considerations for ending a relationship.  I believe it is important to have a sober self assessment of your relationship before making any decisions.  Although it is wise to make this decision on your own, outside influences should be considered, especially if you believe that these outside influences care for you.

Healthy relationships are the best relationships.  The grass is greener where you water it, so deciding to end the relationship should only come after you know that you cannot work to make it better.  No one should be unhappy in a relationship but I also don't want you to end something too prematurely.  I want you to be happy and healthy!

What do you do when your guy keeps talking about other women?  Or maybe you find yourself in a situation where your girl keeps talking about all these other men, what do you do about that?  How do you handle a situation where your special someone is talking about other special someone's?  How does that make you feel when it happens?

In this episode of the dating after divorce podcast, we talk about a particular situation in which a young lady is dating a guide who continues to make comments about other attractive women.  She finds herself in a very awkward situation and and is not exactly sure what to do.  At the end of it all, she is ready to walk away from this guy and never speak to him again.

In this episode we rewind the clock and go back to our teenage years as if we explore a story of a young man who has the hops for a young lady.  In his story, you can feel his excitement and energy as he details the situation in which he finds himself.  He isn't sure if she likes him and yet goes into great detail about all of the little situations they spent together.  On the surface, its really a cute story of boy meets girl and I'm so glad this is happening.

When we look beyond the cover story, its really a great reminder of what could be for the rest of us.  The world tends to say everything is negative, but this young man reminds us that every once in awhile the world will surprise this was something really beautiful.  Let's take the example of this young man and remember that young love is still possible no matter how old we are.  It's still possible, no matter how negative the world gets!

It happened again this morning. An older, middle aged woman reached out to me to see if I was actually the one who was talking to her online and tell her all these romantic things. She showed the pictures, the transcripts, and all the broken English. I told her, like many others, she was the victim of a scam and that she should report and block. I told her that wasn't me, showed her where he stole the pictures, and how this whole thing was a big lie. Finally, after several messages, she agreed to block and report.

In this episode, I'll show you how to deal with that nonsense!

It's so easy for us to be negative and always think about the things that we don't want.  Of course we do not want somebody that is going to lie to us or cheat on us, but why do we feel the need to announce that to the world on our dating profiles?  This negative first approach often leads to low responses and the seeds of resentment ride off of the bat.

Instead, I think it's better for us to have a future focus.  We cannot simply live out of our past and expect to correct all of the failures from our previous relationships.  Getting healthy first and focusing on the future is the best way to go and that's exactly what I talk about on tonight's podcast episode!  I would encourage you to tune in and let me know if you think that living in the past is better than having a future focus.

They might be annoying to some, while others can't seem to live without them.  What am I talking about?  I'm talking about pet names for your special someone inside of a relationship and this has been a tradition for as long as recorded history has been recorded.  Even the most classic of literature is filled with references to pet names for lovers as the writer poured out his feelings for this very special person.

In today's episode we cover 200 pet names that you're more than likely going to hear in today's relationships.  However, there were quite a few surprises and we would love to know how many of these you actually use or have heard being used by your friends and family.  Leave a comment below and let us know your thoughts on the matter.

Your comments and shares are greatly appreciated, along with your subscriptions.  You play a big part in it the way for this podcast and every time you share an episode, you might actually be helping someone have a better relationship!

It's 2021 and online dating is the norm. Whether you like it or not, it has become the primary way to meet people in an increasingly online and fast-paced world. For some it's an exciting opportunity to meet new people, try new things, and explore their world. For others, it's a tremendously stressful experience with no good reward. In short, it's here to stay and it might be the only way to meet someone new.

With that in mind, there are a few red flags that you should be on the lookout for. Keeping an eye out for these trouble spots could help you decide who you want to meet and who you want to spend time with. I hope this helps!

Dating in today's world can be frustrating to say the least.  With all of the crazy stories of horrible communication, it takes it very resilient person to navigate this swap and filter out all the garbage while finding a person that you are compatible with.  If you are not careful, you can very easily fall into a pit of despair and give updating altogether.  Lots of people have done this, and end up becoming very bitter and all alone.

In this episode of the podcast, we talk about very specific approaches you can take to online dating and communication methods.  Drawing on science, resiliency is a very powerful tactic that can be used to have better conversations and to weather the storms of those idiots out there making a bad for the rest of us.  Trust me, no one is immune to bad conversations, but you don't have to let them affect you in the long run!