In this episode, hosts Faithann and Joy continue our six-part series on Biblical Submission in a Christian Marriage. We’ve been encouraged by the feedback from so many of you who have been following along, and we’re thankful for the opportunity to go deeper together.

Before diving into today’s conversation, we pause to extend our deepest sympathies and prayers to the family of Charlie Kirk, a Christian father and cultural influencer whose life was tragically cut short. We mourn with his loved ones and pray for God’s comfort to surround them.

In this part of the series, Faithann leads the discussion and unpacks three themes that highlight how biblical submission is not about rigid rule-keeping, but about cultivating a Spirit-filled, Christ-centered marriage:

A Little Something – How friendship between husband and wife reflects the exclusive intimacy Christ has with His bride. From inside jokes to quiet moments together, small daily habits strengthen the bond of friendship in marriage.

The Size of Things – Why wives don’t need to overstep as their husband’s PR arm or emotional spokesperson, and how learning to let go of small preferences can protect unity and respect. We talk candidly about eye-rolling, micromanaging, and trusting God with the balance of headship and support.

Grape Juice – A simple analogy with profound truth: our words should be concentrated, sweet, and reverent, not watered down by constant criticism or nagging. Just as grape juice should remind you of grapes, our words should reflect the grace of Christ in our marriages.

Throughout this conversation, we circle back to the truth that friendship is not optional in Christian marriage. Roles matter, but without friendship, something vital is missing.