In this week’s episode, I am talking to my ladies on how to talk to a man to get him to really LISTEN and to cherish your feelings. So many women tell me that men hate feelings and emotions. I have found that for the most part, that is NOT true! What men really hate is all the DRAMA that comes with the way a woman expresses herself.

It is downright exhausting to a man to have to deal with the yelling, screaming, sobbing, and overall dramatics when a woman is upset. Remember, if you are over the age of 25, the idea here is to get you to an emotionally mature place where you can learn how to express your thoughts and feelings assertively and calmly. When you speak in a calm, confident tone to a man, it is actually more frightening to him than when you are yelling. He can truly HEAR the words you are saying, and he will more than likely seek to find a solution.

The goal here is to get what you WANT, ladies. And that is a strong, masculine man who wants to hold space for you and will cherish your feelings!