In this week’s episode, I am helping my couples to get what they really want with negotiation strategies. Ok, so this isn’t one of the “sexy” tools, but it does work! I often ask my couples why they don’t do it more often. If there is something you want and you are prepared to give your partner something they want in order to get it, then strike a deal.

In couple’s sessions, I actually help couples negotiate deals all of the time. We draft them up, and they each sign it. Once they have a “deal” or “contract” in place, they can each hold the other accountable moving forward. If one person drops the ball on what they promised, the other simply reminds them of their deal and can also now withhold what they promised to them.

Remember, it’s going to take more than love and romance to have a mutually satisfying, happy relationship. You need SKILLS to navigate each day that you both are with each other. Good, healthy, effective skills can make all the difference in your relationship or marriage. Too many people DON’T have the emotional intelligence to learn and implement new skills. If you’re interested in seeing how coaching can help your relationship, click HERE to sign up for a couples consult!

Also, here is a copy of the “Relationship Contract” that I spoke of in this episode for you to use as a guide to creating your own!