Marriage iQ

Episode 98: Real Talk: Miscommunication and Failed Expectations


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What happens when your best intentions collide with your partner’s expectations?

In this real, unscripted Marriage IQ episode, Drs. Scott and Heidi Hastings unpack how miscommunication and emotional reactivity can derail even the best marriage moments—from heartfelt conversations to romantic retreats.They share a recent story of how cloudy weather, unspoken needs, and one vulnerable moment turned into conflict—and how they repaired it with empathy, humor, and new “rainy-day rules” for their relationship.
👉 Listen in for practical tools to turn misunderstandings into deeper connection—and to learn how to speak and listen with emotional intelligence.


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Marriage iQBy Dr. Heidi Hastings and Dr. Scott Hastings