As we're in that niec bit between Christmas and New year, there are some great opportunities to think about what we want to achieve in 2021.

In this podcast I share with you some of the thinking I personally use and invite clients to use when in the decision space about what they want to achieve.

1. THE WHY BEHIND THE GOAL.

You've got to be wholly bought into the stoary as to WHY you want to achieve your goal and it needs to be aligned with your highest values.

If you head on over to JOhn Demartini's values determination process you'll be able to find out what your highest values are.

Goals in line with what we value most are more likely to happen.

2. REVERSAL OF DESIRE.

Obstacles make me stronger.

In this section I walk you through a mindset technique I'm trying to develop personally. THis is where we see our biggest resistances as opportunities for growth.

THis is from the book by Barry Michels and Phil Stutz called "The Tools".


3. NAVIGATING SHAME AND GUILT.

At some point on our pursuit of success there is inevitably going to be moments and times we fail, fail massively.

We've got to learn how to deal with those moments.


4. LEVERAGE SOCIAL SUPPORT

We are social animals and sometimes we need the power of those around us to support us.

In the book "Switch" by chip and Dan Heath they say:

"Rally the herd" - Get social support
"Speak to the RIder" - Use data
"Motivate the elephant" - Use feeling.


Making sure you have 1-2 of the above in place will help you be more successful Next year.