This one feels super exciting and close to my heart

In this episode, we dive into the raw edges of desire and what it means to truly own your sexual truth.

Joined by a previous lover of mine who introduced me to polyamory and k*nk, we strip away the shame and conditioning that binds us.

We explore how curiosity about your desires can lead to deeper, more integrated relationships and how to talk about those desires with lovers or new connections.

He shares his journey from being caught in society’s narrative of polyamory being 'wrong' to using it as a path for growth, discernment, and a deeper connection to his purpose.

This is about more than sex—it's about stepping into your authentic self, shedding instant gratifications, and learning how to hold space for your partner’s emotional depths.

Ready to unlock the taboo and walk into the truth?

i just have to say it ....

THIS IS ONE OF MY FAVORITE EPISODES YET

this human, his words, his teachings, comes from a depth within him that stems lineages.

Channeling ancient messaging into relatable shares that makes it so easy for almost anyone to metabolize

Im obsessed. Will be going back to this one time & time again

Topics explored

-opening a monogomous love into a poly - explorative container

-what triggers are and how to claim new stories and responses in the body

-channeling & the akash

-clearing karmic memory from the body & lineage

-practical tips for nervous system balancing when triggered

-a deep & vulnerable share of what it was like for him to witness his whole life on fire when his house burned down

- &&& so much more

SO - get some organic popcorn with seaweed & spurlina (a personal fave of mine) and buckle up because this one is about to BLOW your MIND.

introducing my new course:

EROTIC ACTIVATION

a course for the passionate man to rewrite & uplevel the way he relates to his séxuality .... and therefore his LIFE

I had the pleasure of sitting down with the incredible Devah for a deep dive on all things -

- connecting the genitals & the heart

- what the absence of that looks like, looking for validation outside of the self

- calling your power back

- circulating the turn on for enhancing the experience

- pleasuring your woman, touching her in a way she has never been touched

- what the experience of being worshipped does to a woman

- embracing the inner primal dominance as a man

- sacred intimate work; what it is and how it is changing the WORLD

Ooooh this one is so juicy. I brought on one of my favorite women to have a super fun talk on all things like: moving emotions through the body, somatic release, helpful insight for men to know on how to support her when she is experiencing a lot of emotions and how to spice up the passion in the bedroom.

We explore topics around:

If you have ever struggled to understand how to support your woman, this will provide SO much insight

About Anjelica

Anjelica is an Attune Coach & Ancient Ritual Guide specializing in helping individuals clear through shame to experience deeper liberation. Using breath, sound, and movement, she awakens people to their authentic expression and guides them to tap into their divine source energy. Anjelica supports personal transformations, especially for women who have lost their identity, and draws from her own profound life experiences and spiritual journey.

The best place to find her is @attuneanjelica on instagram

AND If you are curious about my new course EROTIC ACTIVATION, 4 week journey for the passionate man to harness his sexual force ... you can find more info HERE

Until next time sweet love!

my new course for men on harnessing the power of their sexual force is finally HERE. see more at

⁠EROTIC ACTIVATION

Exploring your turn on....

It’s actually so simple to live turned on 

Turned on by life, romancing yourself in each moment 

Not in hedonistic pleasures, that reaching for more (at some point it just plateaus) 

Intentionally charging up our erotic current 

Arousing our system

Tantra quite literally means to liberate and expand

Best way to get in body - through the five senses

Slowing down “what do i hear? see? smell? feel?" etc

Cultivating pleasure in every moment 

In each moment we have a choice / feed the turn on and satisfaction or the suffering 

GoddeX Elektra is a Professional Therapeutic Dominatrix working out of Boulder, CO.

She holds a master’s degree in mental health counseling and integrated these skills into her dominatrix work. 

A few years ago, when we lived together, I would listen to her struggle and then flog her, quite intensely, with affirmative statements to pattern interrupt where she was stuck. And vice versa. All the time. It This was at the beginning of our individual journeys in the kink & BDSM world. 

Kink can be a bridge between somatic therapy and sexuality. 

In this episode we dive right into

- The stigma behind this industry

- How she got involved

- What a typical therapeutic dominatrix session looks like

- Examples of client breakthroughs

And of course, why this work is so deeply healing for people.

Can’t wait to hear your thoughts ~

To connect with Goddex Elektra -

Send an email to [email protected]

Oooooh yes I am so here for more of this juciness. The secret sauce of a good ask.

The seduction behind knowing what it is you want and how to recruit people to help you achieve it.

Behind every complaint is a desire. A need. An unfulfilled longing. I find it far more helpful to locate the desire behind it and then come up with an ask, than to be sitting around complaining about it.

Being specific and congruent with your ask

Incongruence or hesitance in the ask is not claiming fully what you are asking and desiring

Its giving it away power

It's Shaky. wavering

Stop saying sorry, it’s okay for you to take up space in this world 

It’s okay for you to be HUNGRY with wanting. full of desires / why women think it’s not okay and the conditioning behind it

Dominance & Submission / Energetics & How To's

if you would like to learn more about how to embrace your inner dominance - i just released a course that dives deep into how to embody these energetics / for the Passionate Man

EROTIC ACTIVATION

There's a rise in BDSM culture, entering main stream thought, peaking curiosities and intrigue.

Yet, there is a lack of information and teachings that truly portrays what the point of it all is and the healing capacities contained within it.

So, after years of investigating, learning, and holding this space for others I am here to share the knowledge I have absorbed.

In this episode i go over things like...

What the energetics are

Why it is powerful to explore both roles

How to begin

How to be safe and potent Dom

Surrendering to the light of consciousness itself

And so much more

I only hope that it will provide you with a helpful blueprint for your own exploration.

This episode is filled with the wisdom I wish I had when I began this journey.

This is one of my favorite things I have ever co-created with another.

Tune is as Chachi and I talk about our thoughts creating our reality, words as spells with extreme creative potential, cultivating inspiration in the everyday and following the pull of EROS to our dream life.

We are not here to accept the mediocrity of life as our baseline. Within our bodies is a powerful creatrix that holds deep abilities to create and transform reality around us.

Chachi is a bodyworker, coach, musician, curator of spaces and so much more.

Where to find him

IG: @life.with.chachi

Spotify: @Nizhóní

citing this epic article that blew my perception of reality to pieces

"Reversing Eve's Curse"

https://www.jstor.org/stable/44368903