Escape the CEO Doom Loop

Most CEOs think they have a culture problem. Michael Reddington says it's a conversation problem.

Michael is a certified forensic interviewer, president of Quaive, and author of The Disciplined Listening Method. He spent a decade with Wicklander-Zulawski and Associates training law enforcement, HR professionals, and investigators in rapport-based interviewing around the world. Today, he works directly with CEOs, sales teams, and HR leaders on something most leadership frameworks ignore — the quality of truth that moves through a business.

His core argument is uncomfortable: your title is a barrier. The people around you are editing what they say before they say it. The updates you're getting are polished. The real information lives somewhere below that.

This episode is about what it takes to lower that barrier — not by building a better culture deck, but by changing how you lead the conversation.

In this episode:

• Why leaders miss the truth in plain sight
• From teacher to forensic interviewer — and what that taught about pressure
• The internal voice that keeps CEOs stuck
• The outside voices that reinforce fear and doubt
• Reframing without starting over
• Why progress is easier to see from the outside
• Why listening is persuasion
• What people protect when they speak to the CEO
• The fraud interview that exposed a bigger problem
• Why the best hard conversations feel ordinary
• If you say you don't have time for rapport, you already have a problem
• Why an open door policy doesn't remove fear
• Control, defensiveness, and honesty in leadership conversations
• The simple question that gets people talking
• Shame as the real blocker to truth
• Why leaders should assume people are holding back
• Reframing accusation into loyalty to unlock honesty
• Why these principles matter far beyond investigations

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00:02:37 Why leaders miss the truth in plain sight
00:04:27 From teacher to forensic interviewer, and what that taught about pressure
00:07:42 The internal voice that keeps CEOs stuck
00:11:29 The outside voices that reinforce fear and doubt
00:14:47 Reframing without starting over
00:17:36 Why progress is easier to see from the outside
00:19:18 Why listening is persuasion
00:21:55 What people protect when they speak to the CEO
00:25:20 The fraud interview that exposed a bigger problem
00:35:48 Why the best hard conversations feel ordinary
00:39:30 If you say you do not have time for rapport, you already have a problem
00:41:00 Why an open door policy does not remove fear
00:43:13 Control, defensiveness, and honesty in leadership conversations
00:49:24 The simple question that gets people talking
00:52:24 Shame as the real blocker to truth
00:59:05 Why leaders should assume people are holding back
01:01:08 Reframing accusation into loyalty to unlock honesty
01:03:54 Why these principles matter far beyond investigations

Escape the CEO Doom Loop is for CEOs running companies in the $10–100M range who are tired of feeling like the business runs on them. 

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Most CEOs think their CPA only sees the numbers. Pat Fuelling sees the patterns — the warning signs, the blind spots, and the decisions that separate leaders who scale from those who stall.

Pat is a partner and executive committee member at Doran Mayhew, one of the top 30 CPA firms in the U.S., and has spent 32 years advising privately held businesses through growth, crisis, and everything in between. In this conversation with Glen Dall and John Ninkovich, he shares what he actually observes from inside the companies he serves.

WHAT WE COVER IN THIS EPISODE:

• Imposter syndrome in the CEO seat — why it doesn’t go away and how it shows up
• The physical and behavioral warning signs Pat sees before companies hit a wall
• Reacting vs. responding: the distinction that matters most under pressure
• Growth for growth’s sake — a real example of doubling revenue while cutting profit
• What high-performing leadership teams actually look like (and how rare they are)
• Why the right time to invest in your team is when things are hardest
• Cash flow: the blind spots most CEOs carry longer than they should
• Financial transparency — what to share, who to share it with, and how
• Pat’s three unconventional CEO Playbook additions: empower your people, learn from the next generation, and teach people how to think

TIMESTAMPS:

0:00 — Introduction and how Pat and John met

2:46 — About Doran Mayhew and Pat’s role

8:07 — The CEO Doom Loop explained

10:46 — Imposter syndrome: does every CEO feel it?

12:46 — Recognizing imposter syndrome and finding your way out

14:03 — Growing leaders: from sink-or-swim to intentional development

19:30 — Clients vs. people: which comes first?

22:35 — 360 feedback and giving leaders room to grow

23:35 — Financial warning signs and the early signals of a Doom Loop

26:14 — Reacting vs. responding under pressure

26:37 — Leadership team quality: what Pat actually sees

33:29 — Outside advisors and why objectivity matters

35:32 — Reinvesting in the business when it’s hard

39:00 — Financial acumen for founder-CEOs

43:23 — Cash flow: defining terms and building a foundation

45:00 — Receivables and the false sense of security

48:24 — Financial transparency with the leadership team

51:46 — CEO Playbook: Pat’s three pieces of advice

57:15 — Why Pat went into accounting (and how he discovered it was actually about people)

ABOUT THE GUEST:

Pat Fuelling is a partner and executive committee member at Doeren Mayhew, a top-30 CPA firm serving privately held businesses. He’s been in the profession for over 32 years and was one of the early connectors behind the research project that became the CEO Playbook — the foundation of this podcast.

ABOUT THE SHOW:

Escape the CEO Doom Loop is hosted by Glen Dall and John Ninkovich of Apex North Business Coaching. Every episode is built for CEOs of growing companies who are tired of carrying everything — and ready to lead differently.

RESOURCES MENTIONED:

• Wild at Heart by John Eldredge
• The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People by Stephen Covey
• The CEO Playbook — NinkCoach/ Apex North Business Coaching
• Doeren Mayhew — doranmayhew.com

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There is a moment many CEOs remember clearly.

Not the first sale.
Not the first hire.

The moment they realize they are exhausted, isolated, and carrying more than the business should require.

In this episode of Escape the CEO Doom Loop, Glen Dall and John Ninkovich sit down with Casey Profita, founder and CEO of Gopher Mods, to unpack a fifteen year journey that started in a college dorm room and grew into a national technology services company supporting schools and businesses across the country.

Casey shares the unfiltered reality of building fast without structure.
Hiring friends.
Avoiding conflict.
Confusing effort with leadership.
And how ego quietly turned into strategy.

This conversation goes beyond success stories.
It explores what happens when founders outgrow instinct, when intelligence becomes a bottleneck, and when doing everything yourself starts to cost more than money.

If you are a CEO who feels responsible for everything, trusted by no one, and unsure how to step out of the center without losing control, this episode will feel uncomfortably familiar.

In this episode, we explore:

• How the CEO Doom Loop quietly forms over years, not moments
• Why doing the job you already hired someone to do destroys trust
• The difference between blind trust and smart trust in leadership teams
• Why clarity and scorecards feel restrictive until they become relief
• How letting go of multiple hats is a leadership decision, not a personality change

This is not about hustle.
It is about evolution.

Casey Profita is the Founder and CEO of Gopher Mods, a technology services company that began in a University of Minnesota dorm room and now supports hundreds of school districts and businesses nationwide. Gopher Mods specializes in large scale device repair, lifecycle management, and technology services, completing tens of thousands of repairs each year.

Casey’s leadership journey reflects the reality many founders face as their companies outgrow instinct driven leadership. His work today focuses on building strong leadership teams, creating clarity through structure, and evolving from operator to CEO.

Chapter Timestamps

00:00 – Why the Doom Loop Is Not a Motivation Problem
03:45 – From Dorm Room Business to National Scale
07:00 – The Cost of Serving Everyone
11:40 – When Ego Turns Into Strategy
15:30 – The Most Expensive Business Card Ever Printed
18:50 – Rock Bottom Moments CEOs Don’t Talk About
23:40 – Blind Trust vs Smart Trust
28:00 – Why Hiring Friends Breaks Companies
33:20 – The Shift from Solopreneur to CEO
38:45 – Vulnerability, Trust, and Leadership Teams
44:30 – Why Scorecards Create Freedom, Not Control
51:00 – Saying No Gets Easier When Vision Is Clear
58:40 – Three Principles Every CEO Must Master

If this conversation resonates, you are not behind.
You are at a transition point.

If you want to explore what stepping out of the Doom Loop looks like in your business, start with clarity.

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Most CEOs don’t fail because they lack effort, intelligence, or ambition.
They get stuck because the business outgrows the way they’re leading.

In this episode of Escape the CEO Doom Loop, Glen Dall and John Ninkovich sit down with Peter Oxley, a three-time founder, former global CRO, and executive coach, to unpack what really keeps capable CEOs trapped in cycles of overwork, isolation, and stalled leadership.

Peter shares his own experience inside the doom loop. Long hours. Hero syndrome. The belief that the CEO must have all the answers. Over time, those patterns don’t just slow growth. They quietly drain energy, trust, and clarity from the entire organization.

This conversation isn’t about hustle or motivation. It’s about recognizing the structural patterns that show up at a certain stage of growth and understanding why working harder often makes things worse.

You’ll hear how clarity, systems, and outside perspective changed Peter’s leadership, why self-implementing frameworks often fails, and why the most dangerous leadership problems tend to normalize slowly instead of exploding all at once.

00:02:35 – Welcome to Escape the CEO Doom Loop
00:08:13 – Why the doom loop starts as a “slow boil”
00:09:10 – The trap of 80-hour weeks and hero leadership
00:10:16 – The loneliness CEOs don’t talk about
00:19:38 – When the body forces a leadership reckoning
00:22:15 – Why self-implementing systems often fails
00:27:37 – Identity, persistence, and staying too long
00:35:04 – “Clarity is kindness” and what that really means
00:37:48 – When problem-solving replaces leadership
00:39:18 – Why leading the second time felt different
00:48:24 – Stop being the hero

If you’re a CEO or founder who feels the weight of responsibility but can’t quite name what’s off, this episode will feel uncomfortably familiar in the best way.

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Most CEOs are not stuck because they are bad operators.
They are stuck because they are chasing bigger instead of better.

This conversation is about the moment when growth stops working, and what replaces it.

If you are scaling fast but losing people, clarity, or energy, this episode is for you.

00:00:00 — When growth starts as excitement and turns into strain
00:03:07 — From operator to advisor and why entrepreneurship cuts both ways
00:07:02 — Recognizing the doom loop only after you have lived it
00:09:05 — Fast growth, ego, and the quiet damage it creates
00:11:00 — Why bigger is often a proxy for unresolved leadership decisions
00:14:20 — Compounding versus chasing numbers
00:16:34 — The 15 15 15 lens for controlled growth
00:18:00 — How impatience and lack of discipline fuel the doom loop
00:25:00 — Life by design and the real reason CEOs start companies
00:28:10 — The four flywheels that replace chaos with momentum
00:29:12 — The team doom loop versus building a soulful organization
00:41:15 — Customers, offerings, and why focus beats expansion
00:49:00 — Financial discipline and avoiding shiny object decisions
00:54:12 — Three practices to stay out of the CEO doom loop
00:58:12 — Why entrepreneurship does not have to cost you everything

Brad Giles is a serial entrepreneur, leadership coach, and founder of Evolution Partners. He has built and exited fast growth companies and spent more than a decade advising CEOs across Australia and internationally.

Brad is the author of Made to Thrive, Onboarded, and Bigger Isn’t Better, Better Is Better. His work focuses on strategy discipline, leadership maturity, and building businesses that compound without destroying quality of life.

If this conversation surfaced patterns you recognize in your own role, the CEO Playbook is a practical companion.

It outlines how CEOs step out of the doom loop and lead with clarity, structure, and intention, without chasing scale for its own sake.

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Growth doesn’t slow because CEOs lose ambition or discipline.
It slows because success creates complexity faster than structure can keep up.

In this episode of Escape the CEO Doom Loop, hosts Glen Dall and John Ninkovich sit down with Shannon Susko to explore why growth often becomes harder after a company is working.

Shannon shares why:
Success is often the hidden bottleneck to growth
Capable CEOs stay stuck longer than they should
Founder instinct eventually works against scale
Motivation is rarely the real problem
Structure is relief, not restriction

This episode is not about tactics, hacks, or hustle.
It’s about recognizing the moment when leadership must shift, or the CEO Doom Loop tightens.

If growth feels slower, decisions feel heavier, and the business depends on you more than it should, this conversation will sound familiar.

And that’s the point.

00:00 – When Growth Slows After Success
03:12 – The Hidden Cost of Founder Instinct
07:45 – Why Effort Stops Working for CEOs
12:30 – Success as the Real Bottleneck
17:10 – The CEO Doom Loop Explained
22:40 – Why Capable CEOs Delay Structural Change
28:15 – Structure as Relief, Not Restriction
33:50 – The Leadership Shift That Unlocks Growth
39:20 – Recognizing the Moment You’re In
44:10 – Breaking the Growth Ceiling
48:30 – Final Reflections with Shannon Susko

About the Guest
Shannon Susko is the founder of Metronomics and a leading authority on scaling growth stage companies. Her work focuses on helping CEOs move beyond founder instinct and install the structure required for sustained, scalable growth.

About the Show
Escape the CEO Doom Loop is a podcast for CEOs, owners, founders, and presidents who are already successful but stuck in recurring leadership and growth patterns.

The show exists to:
Name patterns CEOs recognize immediately
Reduce shame around leadership strain
Normalize structure, coaching, and guidance
Shorten the path from insight to action

This is not a podcast for beginners.
It’s for leaders carrying real responsibility, who know something has to change.

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Most CEOs do not burn out from lack of effort. They burn out from reacting too fast.

Dan Hanson is the CEO of Hanson Remodeling, serving homeowners across Minneapolis, St. Paul, and the first ring of suburbs.

With a background in business management and philosophy, Dan built the company through hands-on work before shifting his focus to leadership development and long term purpose.

Today, his work centers on building a durable culture, developing leaders, and creating a business that lasts beyond the founder.

Dan Hanson built a strong company, hit his goals, and still found himself awake at 3 a.m. That was the signal. This conversation is about the shift from gumption to leadership. From solving everything yourself to building people who can.

00:00:00 Pain triggers reactivity or curiosity
00:01:18 Building a company without a clear end goal
00:02:44 Hitting every target and still feeling stuck
00:03:29 Realizing the business could not grow past the CEO
00:04:45 How the Doom Loop shows up at 3 a.m.
00:05:11 When effort becomes the problem
00:06:29 Why calm leadership changes everything
00:07:25 What got you here will not get you there
00:09:16 Develop leaders or replace them
00:11:07 Why swooping in kills leadership growth
00:12:27 Self care as a leadership discipline
00:13:45 Knowing when to put the tools down
00:14:18 How to get out of your head at night
00:15:19 Living in the gap versus the gain
00:17:10 When personal growth creates team chaos
00:19:09 Why CEOs need community
00:20:00 How philosophy shaped decision making
00:21:04 The evolution from money to meaning
00:23:00 Why leadership never feels finished
00:24:22 When success stops being fulfilling
00:27:00 What defines a level five leader
00:29:06 Building something that is not hollow
00:30:07 Imposter syndrome as a growth signal
00:33:20 Doom Loop as regression
00:34:10 Why CEO experience matters in coaching
00:38:17 Accountability as care
00:42:06 Empathy without rescuing
00:45:36 Letting pain teach instead of trigger
00:48:00 Servant leadership is and not or
00:51:16 Letting people go with empathy
00:53:04 Developing thick skin as a CEO
00:56:53 What belongs in the CEO playbook
01:00:07 Pause before you pounce

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What happens when a CEO realizes he’s the bottleneck in his own business? In this episode of Escape the CEO Doom Loop, hosts Glen Dall and John Ninkovich sit down with Philip Chabot, CEO of RSC Mechanical, to talk about the uncomfortable truth every leader faces — when old habits hold back new growth.

Phil shares his candid story of stepping into a 500-person family business, struggling with the “Doom Loop,” and rebuilding through accountability, structure, and consistency. He explains how RSC turned its Compass — a simple framework of mission, vision, and values — into a living system that drives culture and clarity across 19 states.

If you’re a founder, entrepreneur, or executive looking to break free from burnout and lead with focus, this episode delivers the real-world playbook: lean in, write it down, make a plan, and stay consistent.

Watch now to learn:
How to recognize and escape the CEO Doom Loop
Creating accountability systems without emotion
Balancing family, business, and leadership growth
Why consistency beats intensity every time

00:00 – Intro: Welcome to Escape the CEO Doom Loop 
02:24 – Meet Philip Chabot, CEO of RSC Mechanical 
03:40 – The Family Legacy and Early Lessons in Leadership 
06:25 – The Planned CEO Transition 
08:05 – “Want vs Will”: The Real Test of Leadership 
11:09 – Balancing Family and CEO Responsibilities 
15:10 – Recognizing the Doom Loop 
17:08 – Escaping It: A Good Plan Beats No Plan 
20:47 – Building Accountability Through “The Compass” 
23:57 – Culture Over Convenience in a Family Business 
26:40 – Maintaining Standards and Communication 
32:37 – What Got Us Here Won’t Get Us There 
35:45 – Scaling with Structure and Data 
38:30 – Building Culture That Attracts A-Players 
40:30 – Using Data as a Leadership Tool 
43:33 – Consistency Drives Profitability 
45:36 – Phil’s Advice: Write. Plan. Measure.  
51:00 – Closing Thoughts: Consistency Wins Every Time

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Carl Saunders was stuck.
Four years of flat revenue. Flat profit.
Eighty to one hundred hour weeks.
Two top performers asking, “Where is the opportunity here?”

Most CEOs know that moment.
Few know how to climb out.

In this episode, Carl shares how he broke the cycle that was burning him out and stalling the company. His story moves from overwork and fear-driven leadership to a system that transformed the business: daily huddles, transparency, servant leadership, real accountability, and a team that delivered without him in the center.

Within four years, Vorum doubled revenue, tripled profitability, and sold the company with a six-month earn-out because the team was running the business, not Carl.

If you’re a CEO who feels stuck, this is the roadmap.

• The Doom Loop defined
Flat growth, overwork, and top talent questioning their future.

• Why founders stay stuck
Fear of failure, over-involvement, “hero mode,” and the belief that effort equals value.

• The exact tools Carl used to turn it around
Daily huddles
Radical transparency
Servant leadership one-on-ones

• Proof of transformation
Revenue doubled.
Profitability tripled.
Earn-out reduced from two years to six months.

• What goes into the CEO Playbook
Stop wearing 80-hour weeks like a badge.
Lean into personal change.
Make accountability visible.
Coach your leaders, don’t rescue them.
Don’t try to do this alone.

• A 30-day roadmap to break the Doom Loop
Simple steps any CEO can start now.

Former CEO of Vorum, a global medical technology innovator in custom orthopedic devices. Now a full-time Metronomics coach helping CEOs escape the patterns he once lived through.

00:00 Cold Open
00:45 Introduction
02:00 Carl’s Doom Loop Moment
08:00 Why CEOs Get Stuck
12:00 Tools That Break the Loop
22:00 Transformation and Results
28:00 Carl’s CEO Playbook
33:00 Coachability and Resistance
36:00 A CEO’s First 30 Days
39:00 Recap and Close

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Escape the CEO Doom Loop is for CEOs and leadership teams ready to grow with clarity, momentum, and purpose. Hosted by Glen Dall and John Ninkovich, each episode brings you practical tools and real-world stories from leaders who’ve built strong companies without sacrificing their sanity.

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In this episode of Escape the CEO Doom Loop, hosts Glen Dall and John Ninkovich sit down with former tech CEO turned coach Matt Dion.

Matt shares his unfiltered story of success, burnout, and reinvention through the 2008 financial crisis. He explains how ego and overwork trapped him in a cycle of stress — and how mentorship, structure, and self-awareness helped him escape it.

Whether you’re a founder, CEO, or executive looking to lead without losing yourself, this conversation offers real-world wisdom on building teams, embracing conflict, and leading with purpose.

Watch now to learn how clarity and courage create freedom.

Chapters:
 00:00 – Intro & Show Opening
 02:17 – Meet Matt Dion: From Tech Startups to CEO
 05:10 – The First Rise and Fall
 07:11 – Ego and the 2008 Crash
 09:50 – Burnout & Hitting Bottom
 11:00 – Discovering Coaching and Frameworks
 16:47 – Lessons from The Motive
 19:02 – Building A-Player Teams
 25:18 – From Ego to Purpose
 27:19 – Conflict as Data
 39:33 – Freedom Through Courage
 40:22 – Closing Thoughts & Takeaways

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