In this episode we discuss the second core principle of the Established Man. "The Established Man works to be in control of himself and his emotions. He owns his mistakes and failures, and builds a vision to chase so he can be the man his family can look up to". The ten core principles of the Established Man provide a standard of behaviour and emotional well-being for the modern man. If we don't have a vision of where we are going as men in marriage, family and life in general then where are we going? If we don't have a standard to look towards how do we know when we are falling into damaging unconscious thinking and behaviour? By having a standard to be conscious of, we implant into our conscious thinking a flag that comes up when our behaviour contradicts the standard we desire to keep. Without that flag we are often slaves to our usual unconscious behaviour patterns which keep us locked into creating the same life we have. If you want more out of life, if you want more out of your marriage, if you want more out of your relationship with your children then you must develop new ways of thinking, believing and acting that develop that new outcome. "We can't create something new with the same thinking that got us to where we already are." Hope you enjoy this episode of Establish The Man Podcast.