Coaching with Confidence and Care

Establishing Measures of Success: How Do We Know a Session Worked

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In this episode, let’s explore one of the most common questions that comes up in coach training and mentor coaching: how to establish clear and meaningful measures of success for a coaching session.

Rather than treating measures of success as a technical requirement or a box to tick during contracting, let’s look at them as a relational practice that serves the client first. Measures of success are not there to help the coach manage the session; they help the client clarify what would make the conversation truly useful, satisfying, or complete for them.

Much of the difficulty coaches experience with measures of success has little to do with not knowing how to ask the question, and much more to do with presence, listening, and the ability to stay with uncertainty. Working with measures of success often mirrors a coach’s own relationship with uncertainty, time, and results.

In this episode, I explore:

  • Common patterns that make measures of success feel elusive or “hard to get”
  • How presence, deep listening, and curiosity allow success criteria to emerge naturally
  • Different ways clients define success, including internal shifts, emotional resolution, learning, clarity, or a felt sense of completion
  • Practical ways to recognize and co-create measures of success using the client’s own language

    • If you find yourself unsure whether you are “doing contracting right,” or if measures of success sometimes feel awkward, forced, or overly formal, this episode offers a grounded and relational way to think about them.

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    In the next episode, we shift to a very practical focus on the art of asking powerful questions by looking at what makes a question impactful, deep, and capable of opening something new in the client’s thinking.

     

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        Coaching with Confidence and CareBy Luba Diasamidze PhD, PCC